A risk in writing? When I wrote my Christmas memoir, I never thought it would be a risk, a Christian memoir, but it was. Let’s see why.
“Only those who will risk going too far can possibly find out how far one can go.”
~T. S. Eliot
Writing about Christmas for me had to be about my Christian beliefs, but what a risk it was. Many people today don’t want to make the connection between Christmas and Christ. It’s Santa Claus, gift exchanges and a big holiday meal. My new book, Hair on Fire: A Heartwarming Christmas Memoir focuses on my beliefs.
When I was writing it, I never realized how much of it focused on my beliefs until I reread it to do the audiobook. Then I realized my focus—isn’t that funny? My Christian beliefs come naturally—I don’t think about them separately. So I didn’t write it with that in mind, yet that’s what it became. As I’ve promoted it, I realized the Christian focus more so.
As I’ve thought about my writing and my Christian beliefs, I’ve realized my God is present in most of them. In my book, This Tumbleweed Landed, I mention going to church in my little country church in Branson, Colorado as a child and that’s where I met Jesus and my faith began. Also, in my grief and growth memoir, A Time to Grow Up: A Daughter’s Grief Memoir, I reference the Higher Power I found in recovery. Surprisingly, my faith grew deeper during the pandemic and I recorded my spiritual journey in Coronavirus Reflections: Bitter or Better? So, I’m not new to this risk.
My faith has wavered over the years, especially when my first husband divorced me in my late twenties. Because of that, we lost the baby we had been waiting three years to adopt. Devastated, I turned my back on God for many years, but then I found a new, deeper faith in recovery. Recovery gave me permission to find a God of my understanding, so I took years to identify my God, a loving, caring Jesus who resembled a dark-skinned man I could turn to in any situation. Also, I found a new church home, Hope in the Desert Episcopal Church, in Albuquerque, New Mexico, where I have gone deeper on my spiritual path.
But in this Christmas book, I opened up the topic totally. I risked, unknowingly, and I am proud of the statement I made. I feature a couple of chapters, focusing on Mary and Joseph in the birth of Christ. Throughout the book, Jesus peeks out often—I love that.
In this crazy world, where people either share too freely their religious beliefs and try to strong-arm you and then convert you. Or others who quietly live their beliefs every day, changing their world with their presence and actions. I took a risk, the in-between road, and shared deeply about how much I have placed Jesus in the middle of my Christmas celebration and my life.
Finally, I took a risk, and it paid off. Do you risk sharing your religious beliefs? If, not why? If so, what happens?
~ Hair on Fire: A Heartwarming & Humorous Christmas Memoir available in audiobook format: