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Seven Quirks About Life in Panama: I Still Love It!

As I’ve surveyed our life here, I have experienced seven quirks about life in Panama—new things I never encountered in the desert Southwest, but I still love it! I’ve learned a lot and I’m still learning!

Showering here has been quite an experience. In the shower I use, there are hot and cold control knob. To heat the water, it passes through coils heated by propane, so after turning on the hot water, I cautiously add the cold water. At one point in the warming the water, the scalding hot water could burn me, so I gradually increase the cold water and take advantage of the warm water as long as I can. But then it goes cold, so I have to start all over again.

At first, I dreaded showers because it took so long to get the water to the level I could enjoy, but I’m getting it figured out. I have learned to leave the water on and not cut it off with a switch on the hand spray. It stays warm longer and it doesn’t feel like a major quirk anymore.

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A Dehumidifier

Because of the humidity here, our neighbors encouraged us to get at least two dehumidifiers to guard against mold. So on the second or third day we were here, we bought two: for the living room and our bedroom. A week or so later, we bought a third one for our office where we have all our technology and some clothes.

These amazing gadgets show the humidity level in the room, and a low level is in the high 30s and low 40s. Somehow it collects the humidity in that specific area—it’s magic! Then we have to dump them about three times a day. They give off heat, a side effect that caused us to turn the one in our bedroom off in the early evening so the bedroom isn’t so warm. Also today, I washed my band for my iWatch and some wool slippers I knitted. I had avoided doing that because I knew it would take time for them to dry because of the humidity. I found a solution: I laid them on the top of a dehumidifier and the heat dried them quickly—great solution!

Yes, it’s a quirk, but I drastically feel the difference as it collects the moisture in the air. These devices show this desert Southwest woman how much moisture there really is in the atmosphere here—unbelievable!

At first as a passenger, I noticed the road into Boquete from Jaramillo Abajo seemed narrow. Many of the drivers slow down when they meet someone. So, a couple weeks ago, I started driving, and I saw it first-hand. Yes, I slowed down too.

In Boquete, the streets are narrow and have vehicles parked with the large pickup trucks’ bumpers sticking out. So, again I go slow, but I’ve gotten used to them.

The real answer: go slow!!

We plan our days’ activities because of the rain this time of year. Currently, we are in the rainy season, and it rains most afternoons. All of outside activities we do in the morning: driving to David and shopping. Then we hibernate in the afternoon and do work on the computer, watch some of our favorite mysteries on the TV or take a cozy nap!

That mindset demonstrates the expat’s schedule. A few weeks ago we needed to get blood tests for our driver’s license, so we were out in the afternoon in the rain. What we noticed—the Panamanians do not stop their lives for the rain!

So that really is an expat quirk!

We’ve bought two umbrellas and keep them in the car—one is bigger than the other. The one I bought must have been a child’s because when I used it last week, my shoulders got wet. I ended up giving it to our landlord’s daughter, and she used it immediately when we dropped her and her mom off on Friday in a downpour. Yes, we were out and broke our usual schedule because we took our landlord’s wife out for her birthday and thought little about the rain.

I watched as they walked up the driveway home—the mother had her umbrella and her daughter had the one I gave her, and they thought nothing about getting drenched in the rain. Being Panamanian, they just continued the day we had enjoyed together. It was quite a lesson!

NordVPN controls our lives. I told you about this in a previous blog post! When we have it on, we mask the fact we are out of the United States because it shows us being in Miami. So it’s on when we are on our TV to watch any of the streaming services we have. It’s also on when we need to print. But it has to be off when we watch football games on dazn.com because that’s a sports streaming service for Latin America!

Watching mysteries on the TV—ON, watching NFL football on dazn.com—OFF and when I print something—ON! That is a quirk still for me, but I’ve written it down on my PostIt program, so I peek at it as backup.

This quirk has been a hard one for me. We enrolled in a service in Boquete, Servitechnics, and when we order something, our packages go to Doral, Florida. Then they are routed here either by a fast address or a slow address. The fast comes by air; the slow by ship. The fast costs more than the slow.

So when I first routed some medicine here I needed, I got confused and sent it to our mail service in South Dakota. Not a good idea! I also bought a printer on Amazon and sent it to that address. This shocked Lin because he thought I understood the process. Thankfully, I canceled the printer before they sent it, but the medicine went to South Dakota and then they sent it to a friend in Albuquerque. Whew! It didn’t get lost!

Lin received a package at Servitechnics last Friday. Thankfully I received an email yesterday from Servitechnics, and I have a package there, but I don’t remember what I ordered! I’m excited though because I did the name and address right apparently. They have a specific format you have to do for the name and address, and I worried about it, but I must have done it right.

The good news is we have friends here who have had Amazon delivered right to their house, so we have to learn how to do that.

A quirk—yes—but we are learning the ropes!

Today, I went out to the lavandería to look at our luggage—what we’re keeping and will use this week and what we plan to give away. We have friends with two children who are moving and will enjoy the two large suitcases we bought to move here. They can pack a lot of their belongings in them. This space has a locked open-air door to the outside, but the rest of it is open-air with open barred windows.

I looked at all of the luggage and I was shocked! We have MOLD on the two we plan to give away and my backpack/roller bag I use as a carry-on bag! MOLD—so many people have talked about it, but I hadn’t noticed it until today.

So this afternoon, I googled what to do. I took the three bags out front and wiped them down to get the spores off. My favorite backpack looked the worst with blotches of mold all over it. Ucky!

Here’s what google told me to do:

So, tomorrow I have to buy some vinegar and get the mold taken care of.

Yes, I have experienced some quirks since we moved, but I have mastered most of them—and I do love it here! Quirks will never stop me!

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What Does My Retirement Look Like?

Here’s the stereotype of what retirement looks like for many: an aged couple rocking chairs on the porch, relaxed, watching the world go by–no hustle, no bustle! Lots of people are retired and retiring, thanks to the Baby Boomers.

About 61 million people collect Social Security benefits each month, and they account for about one in five people in the United States.

https://www.nasi.org/learn/socialsecurity/who-gets

I’m 65 years old, retired and busier than ever, and I don’t fit that stereotype and many of you don’t either! I retired in 2013, so this is my sixth year of doing exactly what I want to when I want—that’s the luxury of retirement. I’ve always been a busy person and feared that I was a workaholic! I have to be busy. This goes back to my childhood. I started knitting when I was 10 years old and started the habit of knitting and watching TV. To this day, I have a hard time just sitting and watching TV—my hands have to be doing something.

Today my life is full and rich! My husband and my normal weekly dance schedule looks like this:

  • Wednesday – Round Dancing & Plus Dancing
  • Thursday – Advanced Dancing
  • Friday – Mainstream & Plus

Then, we usually attend an out-of-town square and round dance festival once a month that begins Friday night and ends Sunday at noon—lots of dancing! The dancing and friendships across the country feeds my soul!

When I’m home, I do Zumba two mornings a week. I love the movement to high energy Latin music–it feels like dancing to me!

I also am chairperson for two square and round dance festivals in Albuquerque:

  • Duke City Singles & Doubles Spring Fling in
    May
  • Hot August Nights in August

These festivals keep me busy hiring new callers and cuers for future events and planning the upcoming event. I’m so lucky to work with two great committees that make the work fun and effortless!

I attend Hope in the Desert Episcopal church and recovery meetings regularly when I’m home.

After my Mom died in 2013, my brother and I inherited our family ranch, so I visit our ranch and our small ranching community, Branson, once a month to check on things. I love staying connected to that part of my life and my dear friends there.

For the first couple years of retirement, I was busy as the Executor of Mom’s will, and probate kept me hopping.

In 2013, I volunteered to be treasurer of our square dance club, Duke City Singles and Doubles. Now that may not sound like too daunting a task for you, but I’m a “Word Person,” not a “Numbers Person.” I did it because my husband volunteered to be President and I knew his time would be dedicated to the club, so I might as well join him. The first financial statement took me eight hours to resolve, but the last one was about an hour, so I grew as a “Numbers Person.” I did that for four years and helped revived the club and grow it.

Since 2014, I’ve self-published four books and three cookbooks:

  • 2014 – This Tumbleweed Landed
  • 2015 – When Will Papa Get Home?
  • 2016 – Let Me Tell You a Story
  • 2017 – A Time To Grow Up: A Daughter’s Grief Memoir
  • 2014- 2016 – From Grannie’s Kitchen: Volume 1, 2, & 3

I had two really positive experiences with hospice: when my best friend, Kathi Raver died in 2009, and when my Mom died. I knew that I would become a hospice volunteer, but I had to get some time and space from Mom’s death before I could handle it.

Last year, I started volunteering for Presbyterian Hospice, so I see a client once a week and have learned so much about the mission and importance of Hospice. My client is suffering from Alzheimer’s so it’s a roller-coaster ride of mood swings and communication issues, but what an education! My client’s daughter and husband so appreciate my time with her, and I love it. I’ve become part of their family.

I’ve also been a part of the committee that puts on the Branson-Trinchera Reunion every June in Branson. This is a celebration of the small country school I attended.

My husband and I love to travel, and we’ve done several cruises and trips in my retirement. My favorite was to England and Ireland two years ago for three weeks. What an adventure we had! (You can read about it here in my blog!) We have another cruise scheduled for this summer to the British Isle—back to England and Ireland and our first time to Scotland and Wales.

My current writing project has taken over my life! I’m writing the authorized biography of the most famous square dance caller in the world, Marshall Flippo, and I’m stressing out because I want to release it in September. As a self-published author, I’ve set up a timeline of production. Now I have to focus long hours to complete the writing by the end of April, to send it to a professional editor in May, to move the edited copy to a publication software and format it in June and July (our cruise is in July) and to order copies in August ready for distribution in September—WHEW!!!!

Someone said to me a couple weeks ago, “You’re not retired—you have two jobs: your books and your ranch. So, as you can see, I’m busy; I could never spend my days in front of a TV watching mindless TV. I may be retired; I may be 65, but I have energy and enthusiasm for life.

So, you may wonder why I’ve listed all I do in my retirement. I think many people have a skewed view of retirement. Yes, we anticipate the end of the grind—the 40 hours a week demands on our life and now the panacea at the end of the rainbow. I know many do retire and choose a much less active life than I have, but I wanted you to see the possibilities in retirement. You get to choose and the choices are limitless!

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I Turned 65 Last Week—Really?

Yes, I was born in 1953. Turning 65 has been a milestone. I celebrated the day with my nephew and his two daughters and my niece, her husband and their two sons and my brother and my husband.

We had a birthday lunch at Tony’s Diner in Trinidad, CO then we drove over Raton Pass to Raton, NM to the Aquatic Center and swam and played in the water all afternoon–it was sure joy and delight for me.

When we arrived back in Branson, Co, my husband, Lin, came from our home outside of Albuquerque, NM with gifts and a delicious cake.

We spent the evening playing games around our round table in the dining room at my house, laughing and enjoying each other. Zenga became the new favorite game that had us laughing and holding our breath.

I couldn’t have asked for a better day to enter the land of Medicare.

A dear family friend, Zita Louden, lived to be in her 90’s and she told Mom once, “Never, never think old!”

That truly is my motto. Lin and I lead a busy, action-packed life, dancing 3 – 4 times a week. I exercise 2 times a week. I have a fantastic retirement job of writing books. I visit our family ranch once a month and co-manage it with my brother. Lin and I travel all over the USA for square dance festivals and have dear friends all over the country.

There’s no stopping me, and I look forward to what this year will hold–adventure I’m sure because I look for it every day. I start each day with this simple prayer, “Surprise me today, Lord!” And He does!

What is your motto for life? What is your simple prayer to start the day?

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