Marshall Flippo · My Books · My Thoughts · My Writing

My Writer’s Corner: What Do I Toss?

Toss paper

What do I toss today? My writer’s corner in our loft is in total upheaval. We’re packing to move and my computer desk and bookcase next to it held what I thought were my writing necessities and a few other incidentals. But really? Let’s look.

I opened up so many of my old writing journals and found poetry and ideas written years ago, but I didn’t finish many of those journals! What a waste! Probably twenty or thirty years ago, I decided to print my writing and had a spiral binder full, but now many of those poems and stories are all in books! So I tossed them, but I kept some poems I need to add to my new poetry series: Navigating Life’s Journey Through Poetry.

Just Another Square Dance Caller: Authorized Biography of Marshall Flippo's cover - toss

Proudly, I have a copy of each of my paperback books—a hardback copy of Flippo’s, Just Another Square Dance Caller: Authorized Biography of Marshall Flippo just for him. He wanted hardbacks, so I created hardbacks. In fact, it’s the only book I’ve written that has a hardback.

In which packing box will they end up in, I don’t know, but I remember opening the boxes with those original copies and bursting with proud! That first touch on the cover, then the flip through the pages and seeing my words in print overwhelmed me with joy.

A Time to Grow Up: A Daughter's Grief Memoir cover - toss

I remember one major mistake I made in A Time to Grow Up: A Daughter’s Grief Memoir. I forgot to have a copyright page, so I printed it up immediately on label-like paper and stuck it to the back of the title page! What a disaster that could have been.

Let Me Tell You a Story cover - toss

Today I thumbed my way through first drafts of each of my books with notes and revisions. I tossed them today. Why keep them? However, I did keep everything pertaining to my dad’s 75th birthday book, Let Me Tell You a Story, dating back to 1993. For some reason, I just couldn’t let go!

Occasionally, I have loved looking back at the first drafts of my books, feel the 8 ½ sheets of paper in my hands and marvel at the changes suggested by my writing group or editor. That’s one of the magical pieces of writing a book—the suggestions that turn into something magically. But, no, I closed my eyes and tossed all of them.

My motto this year because of this move is “Let go,” and it continues to come up! I dreaded packing up the my book stuff because I loved it so, but I decided now was the time!

What an amazing historical square dance library I have from writing Flippo’s biography! I have an amazing collection of books he mentioned when we were talking. In that collection, I have kept Bob Sumrall’s Do-Si-Do and Square Dancing Is Easy by Sam Justin in the cellophane wrappers they came in.

I gathered the following books and used them as resources:

  • Betty Casey, Dance Across Texas, University of Texas Press (1985).
  • Betty Casey, The Complete Book of Square Dancing [and Round Dancing], University of
  • North Texas Press (2000).
  • Bob Osgood, As I Saw It, Humbug Enterprises (2017).
  • Bob Sumrall, Do-Si-Do, (1949).
  • Jim Mayo, Step by Step Through Modern Square Dance History, (2003).
  • John W. Jones, Square Dance Fundamentals, Jones Street USA, LLC, (1970).
  • Lloyd and Dorothy Shaw, Lloyd Shaw and the Cheyenne Mountain Dancers.
  • Lloyd Shaw, Cowboy Dances, The Caxton Printers, Ltd. (1949).
  • Richard Severance, A Step in Time: The American Square Dance, (2018).

These books will remain in a box in storage and kept for sure.

Stan Jeffus scanned the pictures and articles in the scrapbooks Neeca made for Flippo and sent me a CD. What a resource that was! During our weekly talks, Flippo had the actual scrapbook, and I had Stan’s scanned pictures and articles in front of me on my laptop. So, we went through them together miles apart. They worked as sparks to our conversations with Flip telling stories connected to the picture or the article.

Also, this bookcase housed other stuff. I loved going through old photos—where did the time go? What fun Lin and I have had! Cruises, trips and more. I did toss some of the photos but kept any I felt I needed. I found one treasure I had already scanned—my granddad burning cactus during the depression and drought of 1934 because cattle could eat it then. Here it is!

Laurence Horner burning cactus - toss

To toss or not? I cleared out my computer desk. The bookcase next to it still has one and half shelves full. As I’ve wandered through my eleven-year writing career today, I almost choked up at all my writing—nine books! I never would have believed that twenty years ago I would have nine books and another on the way!

Let go!


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Can a Legend Be Forgotten? Keep Flippo’s Memory Alive

Marshall Flippo - legend

Can a legend be forgotten in five years? Can a square dance legend’s name be erased from the memory of dancers? Only if we let that happen, and I will not let it happen as long as I can sit at a computer and type!

What attributes identified this legend, Marshall Flippo to me?

A young Marshall Flippo in the Navy - legend

For one thing, when we met face-to-face the first time in Tucson, Arizona on October 27, 2017, Flippo spoke of his family then immediately told me about quitting school his senior year and joining the Navy at seventeen. His Navy career spanned four years in the South Pacific. After hearing his vivid description about the end of the war and all his experiences, I realized he had given the reader in this book a sizable birds’ eye view of what happened.  

Because I knew him later in life, his raspy Texan twang identified Flippo to me. When I wrote the book, I tried to capture his language for the reader because it certainly added a flair to the telling. Listening to his earlier recordings, Flippo had a clear, identifiable voice.

Often at a dance when we visited him, I enjoyed his outlandish sense of humor. In fact, when I was writing his biography, I can’t tell you how many people told me their favorite “Flippo Story,” and often it included humor.

While researching his biography, we only met face-to-face twice. I had forty hours of recorded interviews with Flippo. Often “our date” was on Tuesday at 1:00 PM. Lin, my husband, has said he knew I was talking to Flippo because of the laughter.

In fact, he wanted to start his book with a variety of different pieces. We finalized on a tribute to those who had helped him get started with his calling—and then his dirty joke a caller’s wife told him. When he shared it with me, Flippo chuckled and said, “Now you clean it up so we can add to the book.” So, I did!

If you attended any After Party at a dance festival where Flippo called, you experienced another demonstration of his sense of humor—hilarious skits! He loved to take on a persona and play it up to the max! You can see it in the following pictures:

Here’s a link to a trailer of his skits: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=X8u90uFCL4w

One of my favorite song he pantomimed was I Don’t Look Good Naked Anymore.” How hilarious and fun!

Looking back over his many recordings, his amazing choreography and calling entertained thousands of dancers. When I was writing the book, I shared a chapter with my writing group one Monday. Marty, an astute writer asked, “Does Flippo do his own choreography?”

Shocked, I sat for a moment and replied, “I have no idea.” Flip (a nickname for him) and I had our weekly interview date on Tuesday, so I asked him the next day. This opened up a gigantic discussion, and he told me how he choreographed “The Auctioneer,” his premiere hit. He spoke with enthusiasm and joy! It was quite a feat—want to know how he did it? His choreography became a whole chapter, Chapter 20—Flippo’s Choreography.

Listen to a sample of The Auctioneer!

After all his involvement in CALLERLAB, he received six awards for his calling and participation in this organization he helped start!

So, have you forgotten him? Has this legend died in your area? Your square dance club?

Just Another Square Dance Caller - legend

Before the pandemic, I had lots of pre-orders for the book, Just Another Square Dance Caller: Authorized Biography of Marshall Flippo, but square dancing stopped in 2020. Festivals were canceled—places I planned on selling his book—Indio, California. CALLERLAB convention canceled

In 2021, specifically, I thought our festival in Albuquerque, Hot August Nights, was a go, so I loaded up on both formats—hardbacks and paperbacks. BUT IT WAS CANCELED! So, I ended up with surplus inventory!

In 2023, I went to the CALLERLAB convention in Reno, Nevada to sell his biography. I can’t tell you how many younger callers when asked if they knew Flippo, said, “No, who was he?”

Because Darryl Lipscomb helped at a booth next to mine, he retold a sad conversation with Flippo after he retired. Flippo told Darryl that once he retired, dancers and callers would forget him in a short time, three or four years. He retired in 2016. By 2023, it had happened. Therefore, I sold very few books there, so disappointing!

Being the eternal optimist, I returned to the CALLERLAB convention in Dallas, Texas the next year. Okay, Texas was Flippo’s home state, so come on—wouldn’t he still be known. Yes, more people knew him there, but still a vast majority had no interest in him, his book or the history this book chronicles.

Sadly, I have put out several major sales on his book over the last two years, and the response has been stunning—no sales! Some people buy his book on Amazon, but I’m talking about the copies I have.

So, here I am continuing to honor Flippo. When we started this project, he had one major request, “Don’t make me a hero!” This humble stance is exactly who he was! He never saw his position in the square dance world of mentoring many of our fine callers today. When the CALLERLAB began, Flippo was one of the original eleven, and he repeatedly supported the organization his whole career. Also, he began calling in the heyday of square dancing and continued into his late 80s, moving from live music, to recorded music to using a computer! So, this biography stands as a history book, too.

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FREE SWAG included with your order

✓ Perfect gift for square dance enthusiasts, music lovers, or anyone who appreciates American folk traditions

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A Negative Comment About the Flippo Book! What?

A negative comment about the Flippo book I wrote—what? Yes, and I’m proud of how I handled it!

Last week, at Hot August Nights Plus Square Dance Weekend in Albuquerque, New Mexico, a woman hung around my book table Saturday afternoon, especially looking at the table with the biography I wrote about Marshall Flippo.  So, I walked over to see if she had bought his biography.

When asked if she bought it, she replied, “Yes.” Nothing more.

So I asked her eagerly, “What did you think?” I’ve had such a great response from readers in the square dance world, I wasn’t prepared.

“It wasn’t written very well.”

Surprised, I said, “I’m the author.” She stared at me, unblinking, like I was from another planet. That shocked me she didn’t know I wrote the book. My picture is on the book—I haven’t changed that much since 2020. I have an unusual name—come on! Her partner joined us and I asked him if he had bought a copy. He had helped me with information on one specific event in the book.

He said, “Not yet,” which surprised me.

I said, “Well, your partner has.”

Then he said, “I’ll read hers.”

As this conversation continued with no more reference about the Flippo book, I stayed calm and collected which is unusual for me. Usually, I react—get defensive, get angry— but I didn’t. I listened to my internal dialogue: “Look at the cover. Look at the book awards.” But then I realized I didn’t need to defend it. I watched her stand there, offering no explanation, so, I circled back to the book.

“So, what was wrong with Flippo’s biography?” I asked sincerely wanting her feedback.

“It was in pieces—scattered” is all she said—nothing more. I waited for her explanation. She looked away and had nothing else to say. We danced together for the rest of the weekend and I quickly forgot this incident. But on Tuesday morning, I retold it to my book coaching group, and it generated a lot of discussion. My book coach shared his wisdom, “Take neither the positive 5-star review or the negative 1-star review to heart. Stay somewhere in the middle.”

As a writer, I know not everyone will like my books. I’ve written six books in a variety of genres on less popular topics like country living, grief and losing your parents, surviving the pandemic and the biography of a square dance caller. These are not hot topics—no sex, drug and rock ‘n roll, yet I’m proud of each book.

A friend of ours told Lin I should write more steamy books and they’d sell better—sorry, folks! Not my topic!

So, the take away from this incident for me:

  • I kept my composure when she made her comment and then asked a probing question to try to get clarifying information to help me as a writer.
  • When I first released the Flippo book in 2020, someone emailed there were too many typo errors in it and she wouldn’t buy it. I had worked hard on it for three years. I had it professional edited, and this comment crushed me, so I didn’t respond. With some distance and time from it, I realized she probably had just thumbed through it and didn’t realize I had used Flippo’s Texas accent in his responses, so it would like look words were spelled incorrectly. But since then, I have lost her email, so I couldn’t explain or ask her any questions. I just reacted—hurt!
  • I realized how blessed I’ve been over the last nine years to receive so much positive feedback about each of my books

Obviously, this isn’t the first negative I’ve gotten nor will it be the last, but I felt it worthy to write about.

For readers, I have some suggestions:

  • Review any book you read and you don’t have to give every book a 5-star review
  • Email the author with your thoughts about the positives and negatives so we can have a personal exchange and possibly grow from the experience

Yes, everyone has a right to their opinion. I love each of my books in a different way—they’re my babies—yet the Flippo biography has a special place in my heart. I felt it a privilege to spend the hours interviewing Flip and then felt proud of the job I did in writing it. By writing it, I recorded and honored his place in square dance history.

In fact, if you are one of the people who reviewed this book on Amazon, thanks so much. If you bought it and haven’t reviewed it, now is the time to do so!


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