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Let’s Celebrate Poetry: April National Poetry Month

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Let’s celebrate poetry because it’s National Poetry Month. I’ve written poetry since 1986–forty years!  Lin just told me he’s been avoiding poetry for over eighty years.  Which camp do you fall into?

Even though he doesn’t care for poetry, Lin has read all of my poetry books. In fact, he inspired my five-book poetry series.

In school, so many English teachers assaulted curious minds with bad experiences with poetry.

I remember not reading much in school but when we did, the teacher’s interpretation was the only correct one—no room for me or anyone else to interpret the many nuances any poem offers.

Later, at the university when I got my English degree, professors opened up possibilities after they offered prescribed interpretations. But I had the opportunity to see myself in the poem. That’s when the magic happens, but so many students/readers never had that. They got shamed or totally discouraged and become anti-poetry.

Maybe rhyme seemed silly. Maybe you couldn’t figure out iambic pentameter. If that’s all you saw, you missed a whole different world of possibilities: free verse.

Bless You! Someone in your life opened a door to all the possibilities out there. The good news is “According to data from the American Booksellers Association, poetry book sales saw a 7% increase in 2023 compared to 2022.”

When I read poetry, I have to suspend my logical mind and let the images, the tone, the nuances speak to my heart. Then I feel wrapped up in the words and know something I have never known before—because of that poem.

And writing poetry has become my go-to genre for many years. Here’s a haiku I wrote about the wonderful mixture I am:

Who am I really?
Manure and paper clips.
Earth and words mingle!

So, no rhyme but fitting a form: 3 lines: 1st line – 5 syllables, 2nd line – 7 syllables, 3rd line – 5 syllables.

When I taught my poetry unit to my students, they wrote haikus and blew me away with their images and thoughts. Yes, a three-line haiku is poetry. Having to be selective about word choice forces the poet to work through words and language to arrive at the correct count per line and for it to make sense. What a challenge!

Today I shocked Lin, my husband, that I wasn’t writing my whole blog about the amazing Horse Parade we attended —100s of horse—to celebrate the 115th Anniversary of Boquete, Panama. Another observer told me, “No, at least a thousand horses.” Can I write a poem about a horse, horses? Can a horse be poetry?

Here’s a haiku I just wrote about that experience:

Horses everywhere!
Bridles, saddles, quirts and bits!
A black horse prancing so!

So does it work? Does this haiku give you images about horses or a horse?

Poetry has always been meant to be read out loud. Because this National Poetry Month, I have and will be sharing videos of me reading some of my poetry. Hearing the poet read her own work has its own magical power too!

Here’s some samples:

From my newest book which is book #2 in a five-book poetry series, Time Measured Out!: Navigating Life’s Journey Through Poetry, listen to “Spirit Coyote” about an experience I had:


From the first book in the five-book poetry series, Was It A Dream?: Navigating Life’s Journey Through Poetry, I play with thoughts about words in “Playing With Words.” Listen here:


From my multi-awarding winning book, A Time To Grow: A Daughter’s Grief Memoir, listen to “What Words Capture My Loss?:


If you would like to hear more of me reading my poetry, go to my YouTube channel to all that I have recorded so far: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QML0Xl_VAk8&list=PLVTJuKpv4RZd0Uv7A1ZVaBP5YmZAT2Bik&pp=sAgC

More are coming soon!

Larada Horner-Miller reading her poetry
I love reading my poet!

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My Newest Books

Time Measured Out!: Navigating Life’s Journey Through Poetry, Book #2 e-book

ISBN – 9798989688654

$3.99 for limited time

is my truth universal? book cover

Is My Truth Universal?: A Woman’s Poetic Odyssey e-book

ISBN – 979-8989688623

ALWAYS FREE

Was It a Dream? book cover

Was It a Dream?: Navigating Life’s Journey Through Poetry, Book #1 – e-book

ISBN – 979-8989688630

 $3.99


Buy My Audio Books:

This Tumbleweed Landed

Let Me Tell You a Story 

Hair on Fire: A Heartwarming & Humorous Memoir Audiobook


My Thoughts · My Writing

Creativity and Inspiration: From Where Does It Come?

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Creativity and inspiration baffle me at times. From where do they come? Can you summon them? Do they have anything to do with the muses? On the train on Friday, I had a fascinating experience with one and another Sunday morning.

Amtrak Picture - Creative

Once again, I rode the Amtrak train from Raton, New Mexico to Albuquerque. I spent time checking email, updating the banner for my Facebook Author’s page, and updating the banner for my weekly blog to change to “spring.” Then I started working on my new book.

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I’m stumped because of advice I received from Ceylan, one of the editors at Let’s Fix Stories podcast that gave me such valuable advice. She said I had to ground any flashback in the five senses: sound, sight, taste, touch and smell. This book has tons of flashbacks because it’s the story of my incest as a child, and it’s told from the adult point of view. It baffled me how to do this—so as I kept going around and round, I decided it was time to stop!

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Booties I Knitted

After working on the computer, my eyes hurt and felt dry up and itchy and I was stumped, so I turned to my knitting. I love to knit and have made ten pairs of booties for a project I’m involved with in Panama. Knitting has a rhythmic, meditative quality to it. The train rumbled down the track, my needles softly brushed passed each other. Relaxation hit as I worked.  As I sat and knitted, the answer for the flashbacks came to me immediately. It was like the lights came on! Creativity at its best!

So I have my answer! Now I just need to revise my chapters that have flashbacks.

Waking up - creative

At 5:00 AM this morning, I woke from my sleep. Immediately I realized I couldn’t do what I had planned to do tomorrow because I had to return my rental car at 5:00 PM. Tomorrow’s a busy day for me: I have a 9:15 AM appointment with my podiatrist to try a custom orthotic he made for me, and hopefully it fits. Then I have a 1:30 PM appointment for another hearing test, this time with the man who might fit me with hearing aids. The receptionist told me to block out one and a half hours for the appointment. In between the two appointments I need to run by Walmart for a couple things and also Merle Norman. I use my time in Albuquerque to stock up on items I can’t get in Panama or would be expensive to ship.

What I planned to do after the hearing aids appointment was to go with my friend, Sheri, up to Tijeras, 18 miles away to the post office and gather our mail and stop it. Then I wanted to go by the house one last time to say good-bye at the graveside of my precious cat, Jesse. After that, we planned to go to our storage unit and return some items I got at the first of month and retrieve more things Lin and I wanted to take back to Panama.

This trip to Tijeras and back and all that activity would go way beyond 5:00 PM!

This wasn’t necessarily something that contributed creatively to my writing, but I felt the inspiration from my God that certainly saved me from a costly mistake.

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I often have these creative moments, this inspirations. I call them “God Thing.” Often it happens by turning away from my work and doing something else or going to sleep. Yes, sometimes I do my best thinking asleep!

How about you? Have you ever experienced a “God Thing?”

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When will that creativity and inspiration happen again? I can hardly wait!
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Cover of the Month

Time Measured Out!: Navigating Life’s Journey Through Poetry

Hey Everyone,
I’m excited to tell you that my book has been nominated for the “Cover of the Month” contest on AllAuthor.com. This will help me a lot if I could see some votes coming in, so please remember to vote my book.
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Thanks,
Larada Horner-Miller

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My Newest Books

Time Measured Out!: Navigating Life’s Journey Through Poetry, Book #2 e-book

ISBN – 9798989688654

$.99 for limited time

is my truth universal? book cover

Is My Truth Universal?: A Woman’s Poetic Odyssey e-book

ISBN – 979-8989688623

ALWAYS FREE

Was It a Dream? book cover

Was It a Dream?: Navigating Life’s Journey Through Poetry, Book #1 – e-book

ISBN – 979-8989688630

 $3.99


Buy My Audio Books:

This Tumbleweed Landed

Let Me Tell You a Story 

Hair on Fire: A Heartwarming & Humorous Memoir Audiobook


My Thoughts · My Writing · Sexual Abuse

Women’s History Month: Honoring My Courage to Write!

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March is Women’s History Month, and for the last three years, I’ve written about women in my life to celebrate this month. Now, I’m moving forever with a new book I can’t be afraid to publish, so I’m honoring my courage to write.

“Everything in life is writable about if you have the outgoing guts to do it, and the imagination to improvise. The worst enemy to creativity is self-doubt.”

— Sylvia Plath

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I wrote 50,000 words of my new book in November, 2016, during NaNoWriMo (National Novel Writing Month) Month. The genre is an AutoFiction (autobiography fiction) where I fictionalized my story of incest. I put it aside when another timely book project fell into my lap.

Last year, when the Epstein Files surfaced once again, it dawned on me I needed to return to this book. I didn’t just want to share my incest story but the healing I’ve experienced over the last thirty-seven years. So many incest survivors’ lives end too soon or the survivor chooses drugs or alcohol to medicate the pain. Or the survivor chooses to act out sexually and ends up a prostitute or a pole dancer in a strip joint. Or the choice is suicide.

Because I found recovery thirty-seven years ago, I am still alive and have found healing in a variety of ways.

Learn from the past - courage

Recovery offered me deep healing that led me to other healing opportunities.

At first, I was angry at God and stayed away from my church for over twenty years, but I returned about fifteen years ago and love it still.

For years, I sought out healing through therapy. At first after my first marriage, I followed conventional lines and went to a psychiatrist. Sadly, I was still drinking so I didn’t receive much help, but I kept the door open.

In 1988, I went to Codependency Treatment. I had started attending CoDA meeting prior to that, and those meetings introduced me to recovery meetings. It was at this treatment center I realized I was an alcoholic. I had used alcohol to medicate my hidden pain.

In 1993, I went to Sexual Trauma Treatment because I had two childhood memory flashbacks bombarding me. At this place, they helped me to sort through the memories and reconcile what they were. Also, they introduced me to Sand Play Therapy there.

After that, I found a fantastic Sand Play therapist who I worked with for over twenty years.

A few years ago, I joined an International Meditation group which has contributed to my healing by slowing me down and taking time to listen.

All of these different avenues helped heal me.

Last year, I did EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing) therapy because of the dog attack I had in 2024, but we had to go back in my history to some of those incest memories to deepen the healing. This therapist helped me brainstorm possible ways to become an advocate for survivors, and I remembered my book.

In this new book, I plan to mix my story with a fictional landscape and other characters. I know that’s this topic is intimate and maybe a trigger for some, but I have summoned my deepest courage to continue with this project and finish it. I felt an urgency today to address the courage it takes to write about this.

Hopefully you will support me in this endeavor.

AllAuthor.com Nonfiction Book Cover Contest – Time Measured Out! has slipped to #7, so go and vote ASAP at https://allauthor.com/cover-of-the-month/20500/

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Join me on my journey!

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My Newest Books

Time Measured Out!: Navigating Life’s Journey Through Poetry, Book #2 e-book

ISBN – 9798989688654

$.99 for limited time

is my truth universal? book cover

Is My Truth Universal?: A Woman’s Poetic Odyssey e-book

ISBN – 979-8989688623

ALWAYS FREE

Was It a Dream? book cover

Was It a Dream?: Navigating Life’s Journey Through Poetry, Book #1 – e-book

ISBN – 979-8989688630

 $3.99


Buy My Audio Books:

This Tumbleweed Landed

Let Me Tell You a Story 

Hair on Fire: A Heartwarming & Humorous Memoir Audiobook


Blogs · Goals · MY LIFE · My Thoughts · My Writing

My Super-Busy January—Glad It’s Over!

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My super-busy January centered around my participation in the Ultimate Blog Challenge. The agreement was to post every day of the month, and Paul Taubman, the host, offered suggestions every day. You were free use them or do what you wanted. I had to complete four activities after writing the blog—I’ve listed them on the web page I created.

Just because I decided to make January a super-busy month, I didn’t want to inundate my regular readers with a blog post every day, so I only included you on Sunday, my regular day to post my weekly blog. I did post them on my Facebook pages though.

I hope that was okay.

So, I created a web page with all the posts, except three because I missed three days. Look through the list—I hope you enjoy the vast choices you have to read from this list, if you choose!

This morning I had one regular reader message me about reading all of them, “Larada, you are an encouragement to me. I am in love with reading your blogs. I envy your commitment to work. And I was excited to see what you learned from the challenge. YES. You are a beautiful poet. Looking forward to your new book.” She apparently got them on linkedin.com – https://www.linkedin.com/in/larada-horner-miller-4a313261/

To get to the list of my 28 blog posts and the titles, go here:

Your opinion matters to me. Was I right in not sending you a link every day in the month of January for the Ultimate Blog Challenge? Would you have been offended? Or would you have wanted to receive them? I really need to know your answer, so please respond in a comment below or email me at Larada@laradasbooks.com

I certainly am glad it’s over. Midway through I thought it would never end, but I know I will receive many benefits from having participated—I’ve always been a participator and not an observer. It’s in my DNA!

February will be much calmer, I assure you, but be prepared for my rich, fascinating weekly blog! Also, Paul Taubman encouragedthe participants to post more than one blog a week—what do you think?

I do have an exciting experience coming up on February 17 I will be telling you about!

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Whew! Glad it’s over, but what now?

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My Newest Books

Time Measured Out!: Navigating Life’s Journey Through Poetry, Book #2 e-book

ISBN – 9798989688654

$.99 for limited time

is my truth universal? book cover

Is My Truth Universal?: A Woman’s Poetic Odyssey e-book

ISBN – 979-8989688623

ALWAYS FREE

Was It a Dream? book cover

Was It a Dream?: Navigating Life’s Journey Through Poetry, Book #1 – e-book

ISBN – 979-8989688630

 $3.99


Buy My Audio Books:

This Tumbleweed Landed

Let Me Tell You a Story 

Hair on Fire: A Heartwarming & Humorous Memoir Audiobook