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Day 9 – My Name & Its Origin

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My name, Larada, comes from my maternal grandmother and goes back five generations. Here’s where it came from!

My namesake, Larada Pearle Hinton Horner, never went by Larada but by Pearle. She did let me know at one point in her life, she went by Laura which haunted me on an RV trip. On May 30, 2005 this poem came as a result of her sharing that little tidbit, but she had been dead for nearly thirty years. This incident happened at a rest stop somewhere in Wyoming. (See poetry shows up in the strangest places in my life!)

Laura

I held the door open

            For her –

            Crippled leg that moved

                        Detached

            A cane –

                        Obviously, a problem

                        For this silver haired citizen.

She said, "Thank You, Laura”"

            With familiarity.

The name my grandmother used

            Instead of Larada.

I use Larada.

I stopped

            Held my breathe!

Laura – thank you, Laura!

She knew me

            Knew my grandmother!

But how?

Was that door a step

            Into another world –

A world shared by seeking souls?

I opened a door

            Stepped into a space

            Between this life & the next

A spiritual zone

            A place God wanted me to

            Connect to my past

            In a way completely foreign to me.

Was this the crystal

            My Mayan friend told me

                        To look for 15 years ago?

Had it been here all along

And I was too busy to hear it?

Spirit world,

            I'm open to you

                        And the message

            The message I need to hear

            The message that will change my life!

(This poem will be included in book #3 of my five-book poetry series, Navigating Life’s Journey Through Poetry, next year!)

Larada McDonald's gravestone - my name

Larada Florentine Best McDonald, my grandmother’s grandmother donned our name, but I have no idea where it came from. Legend had it that name went back seven generations, but I just looked through ancestry.com and my genealogy information in Family Tree Maker and no one past this Larada is named. So, I guess that’s a legend. So, did it started with her? What’s its origin?

I have always loved my name and the commotion it causes. When I was a child at Vacation Bible School in our little country town, the teachers came in from other places. At Awards Night, the leader stood up and announced an award for Orlando Horner. We all looked around, confused and by process of elimination, I knew it was me!

Later in life when I introduced myself, I’ve had numerous people sing to me, “As I walk down the streets of Laredo. . .” That gave me the idea of an easy way to remember my name—think of Laredo, Texas and pronounce it that way but put an A on the end. Obviously, that’s not the correct spelling of my name, but it has helped many people remember how to pronounce it.

One year at a teacher’s workshop, we had to do a drawing of our names. I drew “La” like a musical note, “Ra” like a ray of sun and “Da” as duh! That helped everyone there remember my name.

The picture of my great grandmother’s gravestone came to me today as a hint from ancestry.com, so I wanted to share it and the story behind my name! What’s the story behind your name?

Larada's picture - My name
I love having my name sung to me!

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Day 7 – Sample Some of My Poetry—Delicious!

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Sample my poetry today as we sail through this month of posting every day for the Ultimate Blog Challenge. I offer the chance to read it or listen to it—your choice or do both! Savor the different formats.

From my award winning book, Was It a Dream?: Navigating Life’s Journey Through Poetry, book #1 in my five-book poetry series.

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December 8, 1995

Catch a word

     and drag it by the leg—

          hold on tight.

               Don’t let go!

                    Hold on!

                         Don’t let it bite you—

                         you might die from its

                              poisonous bite or

                                   worse—

YOU MIGHT WANT TO WRITE MORE!

After reading this, how about listening to me read this poem? Do you like to listen to books, to readings? I do! I recorded several of my poems April 2025 for National Poetry month. Here’s this one: https://youtu.be/AK-hQuXANrw

Spokane, Washington

June 18, 1998

Ingenuity of children

Big Brother sees it as a race car.


Mom sees it as a laundry basket on wheels.

Little brother takes advantage of

     big brother’s imagination.


Down one aisle

     Down another


Little brother’s eyes glisten.

     Smiles and giggles filled his face.


For a moment, it was a race car—

     they raced

     and won,

but mom interrupted the fun!

     "Boys, stop that!"

Listen to me reading this fun-loving poem: https://youtu.be/AK-hQuXANrw


From my newest book, Time Measured Out!: Navigating Life’s Journey Through Poetry, book #2 in my five-book poetry series.

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July 22, 2002

Thatcher, Idaho

Nine drops of Miracle-Gro

     To one quart of water,

          My house plants’ weekly diet.

Eight minutes to bake one potato

     In the microwave.

Time measured out in bits and pieces.

     Lives divided so.

It’s all a cycle,

     the seasons,

          the days,

               the years!

Where is it all going

     in such an orderly manner?

As a matter of fact, you can stop right now. Here’s another opportunity to hear me read my own poetry: https://youtu.be/9Z6iu8nbPOQ

March 26, 2003

It’s insatiable

     Addictive!

But part of me is injured by every word,

          By every photo,

          By every explosion,

And feels shell-shocked already!

     After only five days!

Prime Time war—

     Reality TV at its worst!

          Real casualties

               Real pain

                    Real destruction

And it sells a lot of hamburgers

     and cars!

Take the time to listen to me read this poem: https://youtu.be/-EBZCzGpJn0

My poetry spans a variety of topics because I follow my poetry heroine’s advice for living, Mary Oliver, who shared this her poem, Sometimes:

“Instructions for living a life:

Pay attention.

Be astonished.

Tell about it.”

~Mary Oliver, “Sometimes”

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So, taste my poetry, savor it, sample it! Stay awhile and you might end up enjoying poetry like never before!

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Day 6 – Unexpected Comments Go a Long Way!

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An unexpected comment in 1971, my senior year in high school, stuck to my heart and surfaced many years later. It was springtime on the Colorado plains, and my graduation loomed over my future. Another comment happened a few months later. Here’s what happened!

Branson School I attended - Unexpected comment
Branson School I Attended

I respected Mrs. Miller’s opinion. I attended a small rural school where I was one of four in my graduating class with 72 in the whole school, kindergarten through high school. Mrs. Miller still today stands out as an influential person in my high school life.

I took several classes from her: typing, bookkeeping, shorthand and journalism. Thankfully, I did well in each of these classes. Also, she was our cheerleading/pep club sponsor, so we spent many hours with her on long bus trips to basketball games. On top of that, she taught Girls’ P.E class. She touched so many areas of my life—it seems like we were together constantly.

So, I took her comments to heart!

Because of our small school, I headed the school newspaper for two years as editor. I never saw myself as a writer then—I just loved to write and layout the newspaper. This was back before computers, so we typed up an article on a typewriter and added slash marks at the end of the column to count the spaces needed to justify the column. Then we re-typed the article adding the spaces identified by the slash marks and we had a nice, neat justified column. What a labor of love, but I truly enjoyed it. Those journalism classes were during my Junior and Senior year’s elective classes—more time spent with Mrs. Miller.

During those classes, I don’t remember any specific compliment or positive feedback from Mrs. Miller about my writing. Positivity flowed from Mrs. Miller in her behavior and manners about our little newspaper. Quietly she sent off copies of it to Trinidad State Junior College, without my knowledge and with no fanfare. That’s why her comment caught me off guard. Later another serendipity happened because of her confidence in me.

Larada's Graduation picture - unexpected comment
Larada’s Graduation Picture – 1971

As my final school year came to an end, in a casual conversation, Mrs. Miller looked me in the eyes and said with confidence, “I want a copy of your first book!” I’m sure my jaw almost dropped to the floor. Nothing more was said, but the comment lingered.

In the fall of 1971, I attended Trinidad State Junior College, fifty miles from my hometown, and I enrolled in a degree in Secretarial Science because of Mrs. Miller’s classes that I loved. On a Greyhound bus ride to Denver, Colorado one weekend, another TSJC student slid into the seat beside me.

I don’t remember her name, but her comment floored me.

“You don’t know me, but I know you. You’re Larada Horner, right?”

What a surprise! Often, I had seen her around campus and I knew she was in the Journalism department. Any time I saw her, she appeared important.

I answered, “Yes, and I do know who you are. How do you know me?”

As she settled in and group a bag of chips, she related a story connected to Mrs. Miller, “Well, when I applied for the Journalism scholarship that I eventually won, I was told my strong rival candidate was you, Larada Horner.”

Shocked, I had no idea! Mrs. Miller must have entered me into that scholarship contest when she sent the college our newspaper. Sadly, at that time, I didn’t call her and thank her for her vote of confidence.

In June 2014, I self-published my first book, This Tumbleweed Landed. I’ll never forget when the box arrived with my new books. When I held that first copy in my hands, I remembered Mrs. Miller’s comment and sent her the first copy.

Deep down, I knew her belief in me had finally come to fruition so many years later—in fact, 43 years later!

Over the years, we have stayed connected, exchanging Christmas cards and newsletters, so she has kept up on my writing career. Interestingly, she has never commented on any of my books, but I have no doubt she has supported me from afar.

Ten books later, Mrs. Miller’s comment fueled my writer’s heart without me even knowing it—see what one unexpected comment can do!

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I hope my comments have unexpected positive results!

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Time Measured Out! Launch—Will Be Released This Week

My Time Measured Out! Launch snuck up on me. I have been trying to get this book published for months, and I realized this weekend I had to move on it. I have two different release dates for the e-book and the paperback, but it’s set. So this afternoon I set up my launch plan.

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Because of our move to Panama, I have been working on finishing this book for months! My editor finished her work in the end of July—right when we had scheduled a three-day estate sale from July 25-27. So, I put it on the back burner. This book haunted me since then because I wanted to get it out before we moved to Panama, but I had too many demands on my time with the move.

Then when we arrived here, the demands increased: buy furniture and get set up in our new home. Quickly, I returned to United States for five weeks. Naively, I thought I could work on it when I was there, but I was busy, busy, busy!

So, here we are—mid-December and finally I have it ready. The launch goes into Christmas, so I wonder about that, but this would make a great stocking stuffer for those who love e-books!

Remember back in September, I offered an “Advanced Copy” to my ARC (Advance Reader Copy) team. As a part of their agreement for receiving it free, I will remind them this week to go and leave a review for this book on Amazon and/or Goodreads which helps boost the way Amazon promotes a book.

Time Measured Out!: Navigating Life’s Journey Through Poetry e-book has a release date: December 18! I decided to try a Pre-Order from Amazon. I’ve never done one before, and I’ve wondered about it, so I decided to try it. If you choose to pre-order my e-book, you need to know the price is $4.99. If you pre-order the paperback, it’s $15. Just wanted to be upfront with you.

So, do you want to be one of the first to buy my new book? Go here: https://www.amazon.com/Time-Measured-Out-Navigating-Journey-ebook/dp/B0G6GM86JR

SPECIAL OFFER FOR MY BLOG READERS: If you pre-order this book which is book #2 in the five-book poetry series, I will email you a FREE e-book copy of book #1, Was It A Dream? Just email me at larada@laradasbooks.com with your receipt when you receive my new book! Two books for the price of one! What a deal!

It will be released December 21 because I delayed the finishing step because Amazon has a focus time for new books: 30 days after publication, so I wanted to be wise about that. I plan to continue promoting this book through mid-January!

A couple days ago, I researched the sites I have used during the launch time of my last couple books, and because I had waited too long, many of the sites were sold out, so I had to delay the special prices. I put together a list of the sites I used to launch my first book in this five-book series that help get it to be #1 in three Amazon categories:

  • #1 – Contemporary Poetry
  • #1 – Poetry About Specific Places
  • #1 – Women’s Poetry

The list of promotional sites I used for this book launch I’ve used for the last couple books and it’s worked well for me.

It’s so strange to work so hard on a book then to give it away FREE for five days. The reasoning: the book ranks high in at least three categories, and you can claim that success!

On December 22 , I will have a Zoom Launch Party at 7:00 PM MST. Come and hear some of the poems read and get the inside scoop of what this five-book series is about.

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FREE is appealing to lots of us! If you’re interested in a FREE copy of Time Measured Out!, it will be on the following book promotional sites and many others:

You will have to give them your email address to get the list of books free for that day, but they have some great offers.

Obviously, as an author, I hope you will leave a review after you receive a free copy—that’s part of the launch plan here.

  • e-book pre-order
  • wait until December 19 for a FREE copy
  • pay $.99 if you missed the FREE offer
  • paperback after December 21

If you missed these five days FREE, the book will be discounted to $.99 for a four days at the following sites:

Would this be your first book of mine? Come on, and go to one of the sites listed above, download the book, read it and leave a review! That would be a great Christmas present to me!

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Merry Christmas—Feliz Navidad—and be sure and download my new book!

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