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Seven Quirks About Life in Panama: I Still Love It!

As I’ve surveyed our life here, I have experienced seven quirks about life in Panama—new things I never encountered in the desert Southwest, but I still love it! I’ve learned a lot and I’m still learning!

Showering here has been quite an experience. In the shower I use, there are hot and cold control knob. To heat the water, it passes through coils heated by propane, so after turning on the hot water, I cautiously add the cold water. At one point in the warming the water, the scalding hot water could burn me, so I gradually increase the cold water and take advantage of the warm water as long as I can. But then it goes cold, so I have to start all over again.

At first, I dreaded showers because it took so long to get the water to the level I could enjoy, but I’m getting it figured out. I have learned to leave the water on and not cut it off with a switch on the hand spray. It stays warm longer and it doesn’t feel like a major quirk anymore.

A Dehumidifier - quirks
A Dehumidifier

Because of the humidity here, our neighbors encouraged us to get at least two dehumidifiers to guard against mold. So on the second or third day we were here, we bought two: for the living room and our bedroom. A week or so later, we bought a third one for our office where we have all our technology and some clothes.

These amazing gadgets show the humidity level in the room, and a low level is in the high 30s and low 40s. Somehow it collects the humidity in that specific area—it’s magic! Then we have to dump them about three times a day. They give off heat, a side effect that caused us to turn the one in our bedroom off in the early evening so the bedroom isn’t so warm. Also today, I washed my band for my iWatch and some wool slippers I knitted. I had avoided doing that because I knew it would take time for them to dry because of the humidity. I found a solution: I laid them on the top of a dehumidifier and the heat dried them quickly—great solution!

Yes, it’s a quirk, but I drastically feel the difference as it collects the moisture in the air. These devices show this desert Southwest woman how much moisture there really is in the atmosphere here—unbelievable!

At first as a passenger, I noticed the road into Boquete from Jaramillo Abajo seemed narrow. Many of the drivers slow down when they meet someone. So, a couple weeks ago, I started driving, and I saw it first-hand. Yes, I slowed down too.

In Boquete, the streets are narrow and have vehicles parked with the large pickup trucks’ bumpers sticking out. So, again I go slow, but I’ve gotten used to them.

The real answer: go slow!!

We plan our days’ activities because of the rain this time of year. Currently, we are in the rainy season, and it rains most afternoons. All of outside activities we do in the morning: driving to David and shopping. Then we hibernate in the afternoon and do work on the computer, watch some of our favorite mysteries on the TV or take a cozy nap!

That mindset demonstrates the expat’s schedule. A few weeks ago we needed to get blood tests for our driver’s license, so we were out in the afternoon in the rain. What we noticed—the Panamanians do not stop their lives for the rain!

So that really is an expat quirk!

We’ve bought two umbrellas and keep them in the car—one is bigger than the other. The one I bought must have been a child’s because when I used it last week, my shoulders got wet. I ended up giving it to our landlord’s daughter, and she used it immediately when we dropped her and her mom off on Friday in a downpour. Yes, we were out and broke our usual schedule because we took our landlord’s wife out for her birthday and thought little about the rain.

I watched as they walked up the driveway home—the mother had her umbrella and her daughter had the one I gave her, and they thought nothing about getting drenched in the rain. Being Panamanian, they just continued the day we had enjoyed together. It was quite a lesson!

NordVPN controls our lives. I told you about this in a previous blog post! When we have it on, we mask the fact we are out of the United States because it shows us being in Miami. So it’s on when we are on our TV to watch any of the streaming services we have. It’s also on when we need to print. But it has to be off when we watch football games on dazn.com because that’s a sports streaming service for Latin America!

Watching mysteries on the TV—ON, watching NFL football on dazn.com—OFF and when I print something—ON! That is a quirk still for me, but I’ve written it down on my PostIt program, so I peek at it as backup.

This quirk has been a hard one for me. We enrolled in a service in Boquete, Servitechnics, and when we order something, our packages go to Doral, Florida. Then they are routed here either by a fast address or a slow address. The fast comes by air; the slow by ship. The fast costs more than the slow.

So when I first routed some medicine here I needed, I got confused and sent it to our mail service in South Dakota. Not a good idea! I also bought a printer on Amazon and sent it to that address. This shocked Lin because he thought I understood the process. Thankfully, I canceled the printer before they sent it, but the medicine went to South Dakota and then they sent it to a friend in Albuquerque. Whew! It didn’t get lost!

Lin received a package at Servitechnics last Friday. Thankfully I received an email yesterday from Servitechnics, and I have a package there, but I don’t remember what I ordered! I’m excited though because I did the name and address right apparently. They have a specific format you have to do for the name and address, and I worried about it, but I must have done it right.

The good news is we have friends here who have had Amazon delivered right to their house, so we have to learn how to do that.

A quirk—yes—but we are learning the ropes!

Today, I went out to the lavandería to look at our luggage—what we’re keeping and will use this week and what we plan to give away. We have friends with two children who are moving and will enjoy the two large suitcases we bought to move here. They can pack a lot of their belongings in them. This space has a locked open-air door to the outside, but the rest of it is open-air with open barred windows.

I looked at all of the luggage and I was shocked! We have MOLD on the two we plan to give away and my backpack/roller bag I use as a carry-on bag! MOLD—so many people have talked about it, but I hadn’t noticed it until today.

So this afternoon, I googled what to do. I took the three bags out front and wiped them down to get the spores off. My favorite backpack looked the worst with blotches of mold all over it. Ucky!

Here’s what google told me to do:

So, tomorrow I have to buy some vinegar and get the mold taken care of.

Yes, I have experienced some quirks since we moved, but I have mastered most of them—and I do love it here! Quirks will never stop me!

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A New Car & Driver’s Licenses: Life in Panama!

Boquete sign, car

This week, we bought a new car, a 2023 Kia Sonet, and I renewed my Panamanian driver’s license. Lin had to do more, and yes lots more this week.

We have to go to Panama City on October 24 to start the process to get our e-cedula card. So we started Monday off with getting our airmail tickets. It was complicated because we fly together to Panama City, then I’m flying to Albuquerque to spend about five weeks in the states, and Lin is coming back to David. The travel agent applied our jubilado discuenta (discount) of 25%, so the cost was $1000 less than what the United agent online quoted me! We thoroughly enjoyed her enthusiasm.

Afterwards, we went to Value Motors and confirmed with Victor we wanted to buy the Kia. He gave Lin the instructions on wiring money to him for the car purchase. New experiences everywhere!

Then we went across the straight to a clinic to get a blood test and letter from a doctor stating we had the cognitive facility to drive.

When we got home, we got the notification from our neighbor that our shelves for our kitchen were in at the DoIt Center in David, so we drove there and picked them up. Now we have a place for our dishes and glasses. Before we got the shelves, we kept moving them from here to there when we needed the stove or counter space.

Our new shelves for the kithen
Our new shelves for the kitchen

I have been leading my meditation game on Tuesdays for a while. Now, Tuesday is a loaded day. So I recorded the meditation earlier.

Then we went to the Tuesday market. We love the Tuesday market with all its color and possibilities. Lin buys his breakfast there normally. I bought a beautiful turquoise Alpaca shawl and blue striped pants. Lin bought a fun-filled Panamanian shirt.

Afterwards we went to one of the bank’s ATM machine to solve a problem. We have been having a problem with Schwab debit card. When we were here in May, Lin used it easily, but since then he hadn’t been able to use it. He had spent hours calling Schwab for support with no solution. So, we did it one more time, and he tried one thing different and it worked—one more solution this week!

That night Lin wired the money for the car—he said the process was easy to do!

I got up at 6:30 AM to be ready to leave at 8:00 AM—always a good idea to be the first in line at any of the government offices in Panama. Jason drove us to David to renew our driver’s license. He helped with the translation between us and the office workers.

After a couple hours, I got mine. As I sat there in the room waiting to hear my number called, I feared I would have trouble with the hearing test because of the hearing loss I’ve had with the ear infection. When they called my name—they didn’t call my passport number, I had two tests I had to pass: a hearing test and vision test. I passed both of them.

Immediately when we got in line and talked to one of the clerks, Lin found out he had to take the driver’s test because of his age, so Jason and he shopped and waited for me.

When we got back to Boquete, we took Jason out to lunch and had a delicious meal at a new restaurant to us—fish tacos. Then we went back to Value Motors to complete all the paperwork to buy the car. They weren’t prepared for us, thinking we were coming the next day. Victor let us know he received the wired money. He let us take the car anyway without signing any paperwork.

We started the day with a trip back to Value Motors to sign the paperwork for the car. They helped us with the insurance and we paid for it there online and away we went! It felt so good to finally owning our own car!

From there, we went to the Thursday market and bought a few things.

In the afternoon, Lin drove me to my AA meeting because we had an errand to do afterwards. Oh, course, it was raining. During the meeting, the rain continued and increased. The building has a tin roof, so we had to shout whenever we spoke!

After the meeting, we went by a pottery shop we had wanted to visit but had trouble finding. They weren’t open; it was raining. We looked inside and it didn’t have the size pots Lin wanted.

In the evening, we watched Thursday night football—Lin had a bad night because his Philadelphia Eagles lost to the New York Giants. We turned off the game before the end and watched one of our favorite British mystery shows, McDonald & Dodds.

Lin did a lot of preparation for the driver’s test because several people told him it would be parallel parking. That concerned him because he hadn’t done that in years! He watched YouTube videos and studied them. Lin even prepared a “Cheat Sheet.”

Lin’s Driving License

Lin drove Jason to David to take the driver’s test. I stayed home and worked on my book business.

As the morning went on and on, it assured me that he had passed the test because of the waiting, the process of paying and getting your license.

When he got home and stepped out of the car, he said in a serious voice, “You have to be our chauffeur.” I challenged him and he laughed, “Yes, I passed!” Jason giggled through this whole exchange and would not look me in the eye! All Lin had to do was back into a space and then drive into it in seven minutes.

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That afternoon, I drove myself to a writer’s group I had attended in our May trip. It was my first time driving in downtown Boquete—whew! The streets are narrow. Drivers stop to do whatever they need to do. I didn’t hit anyone—yahoooo! When I got to the Hotel Central Boquete where they meet, I found out they weren’t meeting that day—I hadn’t checked my email that morning and missed the announcement. So, I went on a hunt! I want a hand mirror and have had a horrible time finding one here. I visited three stores and all they had were mirrors to mount on the wall or already mounted on a stand.

So I went home and picked up Lin, and we went to the Gelato shop to celebrate his license and my driving. Then we went to the Tigo office to change Lin’s iPhone and iPad to a Panamanian number. Wow! The process is involved, but we got it started. We had no problem with his iPad, but we still owed $25 on the phone, so we paid that off, but Hernon, the Tigo manager, couldn’t unlocked it. As we were leaving, Lin told Hernon we would return Saturday morning with coffee; he smiled.

We also got a storm warning about a big tropical storm hitting, “an atmospheric river,” so we prepared for it.

On the way home, we stopped at a big new pharmacy, and they had my hand mirror! Yahoo!

That night I spent thirty minutes on the phone with AT&T and we finally unlocked Lin’s phone.

Lin kept his promise and went to the Sandwich Shop next door and brought coffee for Hernon and us. The problems continued, so Hernon suggested we go somewhere while he worked on it.

So, we went next door for a delicious breakfast. We both tried something different by ordering two Saturday specials. I had two poached eggs, salmon, a salad and strawberry juice—yummy! Lin had a ribeye steak, an egg, a salad, fresh fruit and strawberry juice. Healthy and delicious!

When we returned, Hernon solved the problem and Lin has a Panamanian number now. You can contact him on WhatsApp.

Afterwards, I had a Zoom Afternoon— I attended my CoDA meeting from Albuquerque. Then I had a couple hours break. Then I met with my three friends I met in Loveland years ago. They scattered now: one from Arizona, one from Colorado and one from Arkansas. I love this time together. We have known each other for decades, and the conversation is rich.

While we did this our landlords put shelving in our closets in our office—they are so accommodating!

That evening we went out to dinner with Lorrie and Kenny, the couple who lived just miles away from us in the east mountains in New Mexico, and now they live about five minutes away. We ate at Retrogusto, the first restaurant Lin and I ate at when we first arrived here. The food was scrumptious! The conversation moved around the table with each sharing stories and history. We also started planning a long weekend trip to Costa Rica in December!

Because the Denver Broncos were playing the New York Jets in London, we had an early morning game at 8:30 AM.

But the start of the day was scary. Our neighbor had texted me and left messages on my phone asking us to take her husband to the airport in the David because her blood pressure was off the map. I have gotten in the habit of muting my phone all the time—not a good idea now!

So, I dressed quickly and ran over to see how she was! Jason, our landlord, ended up taking her husband to airport, but I felt horrible. I invited her to come over and watch the Broncos game with us and she did with her dog, Noche!

The game was back and forth, but we pulled it out and won it. I burned up my phone by texting two Bronco girlfriends.

The storm they warned about never materialized. We’ve had rain off and on, all weekend—heavy sometimes this afternoon, but not what we were warned about.

I feel like I’m carrying you along with me on this journey showing you our daily life. What a relief it is having our own car. It’s a nice size for here, and I like having a white car! Getting our car, our licenses and solving the Schwab issue has relieved us of several important items.

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Rain, rain and more rain! Life in Panama in October!

A rain storm today that has turned into a really big one!

Rain, rain and more rain during the rainy season in Panama, and it pours now in October. They say it’s worse in November! This desert Southwest girl is in awe!

I’m sure you’ve been told that it rains a lot in the tropics! Now, I can tell you I have witnessed it. But most people adapt—do your outside business in the sunny beautiful morning and then stay inside in the afternoon and enjoy the rain.

At first, it seemed overwhelming, especially when I witnessed a rainstorm that left 6 ½ inches in two hours on our scouting trip in May!

Because the rain is increasing, we altered our schedule this last week and it worked.

In the morning, we drove to David to get more specific furniture: we needed night stands for our bedroom, a table between our recliners and shelves for our kitchen.

But before we left, I had struggled with the name we had of that store— EP Furniture. We had bought Lin’s desk and my file cabinet there and hoped to find what we needed there, but when we went before John, our neighbor, drove us, so we had no idea how to get there. And when his wife went with us last week, we ended up not going there—she wasn’t sure where it was.

So, Lin found a receipt which said, “Econo Precio Furniture,” (Economy Prices Furniture) so when I googled that name, I cheered! I got the directions to the store in David!

We needed a specific size for the night stands because our bedroom is small. It had to be about 16 inches wide only. After extensive searching there, we found our new night stands.

So then we went to the DoIt Center, looking for shelves for the kitchen but we didn’t find anything. Then we went to Conway’s and found this beautiful table.

Our new little car we rented held all of this, but we ended up going home in the rain after lunch at a fonda, Mily’s. A fonda is a inexpensive restaurant, featuring Panamanian food. Wow! The food was delicious!

On the way home, we stopped at a couple shops along the way to check them out.

I ended the day by joining my Colorado writing practice group for the first time since July 14. It was so good be back with my writer friends.

Last week, we met a couple who were visiting Boquete for the first time with plans to move here. We hooked them up with Jason Lara of Jason Lara Tours, so he showed them around the area on Saturday, like he did for us.

When we first met them, we told them we would take them to the Tuesday Market—helping new people here, a tradition that’s so wonderful of “Passing It On” like our neighbors did for us.

As soon as we got to the Tuesday Market, we started introducing them to people we knew. Lin took them to his favorite stand where he gets a breakfast sandwich. They hadn’t eaten breakfast, so they jumped in.

I left the group and got a thirty-minute massage from Monique. She focused on my right ear—I’ve lost hearing in that ear and my right leg because of the dog attack. I loved it and plan on going to our office for more massages.

The new couple went their own way, so Lin and I shopped around. We bought an Eggplant Parmigiana dish from an Italian vendor who’s a riot. He says he only knows four words, then he easily talks more.

The couple we brought had other plans so we didn’t take them home. So, on the way home, we went to a Garden Center we had passed several times. Lin bought a couple plants.

I messed up and didn’t take my gabapentin, so I slipped into a negative space for the rest of the day. Oh, of course, the rain continued.

We left Boquete at 7:15 AM and went to David with Ruth and John. They asked me to join them at Immigration Office to help with any translation needs. We talked about what to buy for shelves in the kitchen, and they showed us shelves they had bought at the DoIt Center. We decided they would work, so we added that stop to our game plan for the day to be home before the rain started.

So, we went to Immigration Office. I helped a little with the translation until we found out the clerk spoke English. We waited for a while, and our friends fulfilled the requirements and paid the fee for registering their address.

Our first stop afterwards was PriceMart where I easily bought gabapentin at the pharmacy. We all got items we wanted.

Then we went to the closest DoIt Center, but they didn’t have the two tall shelves we wanted, but they did have a short one, so we bought that one for our bedroom. We will buy another one and use it for our clothes because of the threat of mold in drawers.

Shelf for clothes - rain

So we went to the other bigger DoIt Center, convinced it would be there. They didn’t have any, so we ordered two like the one above but taller and are waiting to hear they have them.

Lin treated us to a coffee and sweets at a coffee shop. We had a relaxing fun time talking and taking in the scene.

It’s raining like crazy right now! It started about 3:45 PM here, and it’s almost 5:00 PM. That’s why we plan inside activities during the rain.

When we got home, we watched a couple episodes of “Sister Boniface” on BritBox. She’s one of our favorites. It was our inside time—check email. I worked on book #2, so I only have the last section to do, and I will be done with the layout!

It’s Thursday, so it’s the Thursday Market. I need to limit my buying to $20 there, because it’s so easy to spend lots more because of all the vendors. It’s the smaller of the two markets, but we’ve become friends with people there.

Lin bought us lunch from a Jamaican man. A couple weeks ago, I bought lunch from them, and it was delicious, so Lin jumped in quickly.

I ended up buying a wooden soap stand for my shower and black bean hummus.

I changed leading my meditation group from Tuesday to Thursday because of the couple we were taking to the Tuesday Market. But this also complicated this day too.

Again, it was an inside afternoon with rain.

We relaxed and enjoyed our morning, playing cribbage during breakfast.

I spent the rainy afternoon trying to get airplane tickets for our flights at the end of the month. We have an appointment in Panama City on October 24 to finalize getting our e-Cedula card:

“The ‘E’ in the Cédula indicates ‘Extranjero,’ meaning foreigner, signifying that the holder is a non-Panamanian permanent resident. This card is essential for those who wish to fully immerse themselves in the Panamanian way of life, as it allows for uninterrupted living, working, and even participation in some forms of local governance.”

https://www.ndm.com.pa/permanent-resident-card

We decided I should go back to the states from this time in Panama City and Lin would come back to Boquete, so the tickets were complicated. At first, I tried to do it on the internet, but I couldn’t, so I called the airlines. Finally, the agent gave me a cost, and I realized it was expensive because we delayed so much. Then he asked me to login to my account. Then. . .he gave me an altered price of $700 more because of “my personal information.” I hung up!

Then I went outside and ranted and raved to Lin, our neighbors and our landlord working in the yard!

At 12:45 PM, I left to drive in the rain (a downpour) to go to my knitting group for the first time. I cautiously made my way there. I sat next to a friendly woman and told her about my experience with the airlines the day before.

That’s always a good thing to do here—talk to people about any problems you’re having. She told me she uses a travel agent in Boquete, and by doing that she gets her 25% discount (jubilado discuento) for having a pensionado visa. I gasped! I had completely forgotten about that. She also said if you use an airline, you might get the discount but it’s complicated! What a God Thing this was! She also said book hotels directly in Panama City and you’ll 50% off with this visa! What a gift!

When I got home, our amazing landlords put up a coat rack in the kitchen, Lin’s German cuckoo clock and our drapes in the living room! Oh, what a difference!

Our new drapes
Our New Drapes!

The thunder and ran continue here at 5:30 PM—more rain on the way!

Because several places close by the time we get going, and also it rains every afternoon now, we got out earlier and went by the travel agent I learned about, but they are closed on Saturday. Then we went to our favorite restaurant, The Sandwich Shop, for breakfast. I had pancakes with pineapple. I drank strawberry juice and coffee of course—what a delicious breakfast for sure! Lin had strawberry pancakes and papaya juice. These pancakes overflow with fruit!

Again at this place, we met another couple from the United States and hooked up with them. They are fellow New Mexicans. Afterwards we did errands in Boquete and came home.

It was my nephew’s birthday so I called him in California and we caught up. I saw him and his daughters in Colorado at our ranch this summer. I love to connect with him on his birthday and see what’s going on.

Then we spent the rest of the day watching college football and the Philadelphia Philles play the Dodgers.

Lin got up early to watch the game coming from London. I cooked breakfast. Then I went to church online using Facebook Live.

I had already dressed up in my Denver Broncos uniform—Bronco leggings, Peyton Manning jersey, a fluffy orange and blue scarf and my hat. In this outfit and Lin dressed in his Philadelphia Eagles stuff, we went out and showed our landlord, his wife, his daughter and our neighbors. They all joined in the fun of us making a big deal about the Broncos playing the Eagles.

Right after church, the game started, so I brought it up on my desktop to remember how to do it, but first I had to disconnected NordVPN. Lin didn’t do that on the TV, so he couldn’t get it there. So I got it on my laptop, so he could watch it. Eventually the service I subscribed to worked, and we watched the game on our big screen TV.

We really had a calm time watching the game. We each cheered for our time, but Lin didn’t do any of the crazy antics to get me going. And I texted my friend in Albuquerque throughout the game!

And the end: the Broncos beat the unbeaten Super Bowl Champions, the Eagles! Yahoooo!

Tonight we got a warning from our landlord about the volume of the rain, and he and his uncle worked in the field behind us to divert the rain!

It rains most afternoons this time of the year. The thunder blasts right now! This desert Southwest girl has had to make a major adjustment, but truthfully I marvel at the volume of rain here, and yearn for it on our ranch in southeastern Colorado, so I’ve adjusted!

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Similarities & Differences: Life in Boquete, Panama

Similarities and Differences

This week I’ve mused over the similarities and differences in my life today in Boquete, Panama, 5083 kilometers away from Tijeras, New Mexico. That’s what they use here. It’s 3158.43 miles. So, let’s take a look!

Map of distance from Boquete to Tijeras - similarities

My cell phone and computer and the internet seem to be the link in my life that makes living here similar to the USA.

  • Talking to my brother—Because AT&T has an agreement with twenty Latin American countries, I can use my phone like I did in the states. So, I have kept up the schedule of calling him every couple days and that has eased my transition here.
  • Church—At this point, I continue to attend Hope in the Desert Episcopal Church on Facebook Livestream, like I had because of the pandemic, first of all, and then because of my year-long recovery from the dog attack and no driving.
  • Recovery meetings–So far, it’s all been online. I haven’t gone to a face-to-face meeting since we’ve been here, because of not having a car. I will venture out this week though. There’s a thriving recovery community here I got acquainted with in May, so I look forward to making new friends there. Recovery around the world feels the same!
  • Lin and my TV watching—After figuring out the TV services here and NordVPN, we have access to our favorite streaming services like Prime, YouTube TV, and Britbox. Also, today we didn’t have to struggle with getting our favorite NFL games because I subscribed to an international service, Dazn.com, and it has worked perfectly.
  • Friends to share life with—We have so many wonderful friends in the USA due to our square dancing, my teaching life and my recovery. But we have made a wonderful circle of friends here who have made the transition seamless in so many ways. Yes, we miss our friends in the USA, but because of AT&T, I talk to people easily from here. Also, I will connect with many when I return on my trips for ranch business.
  • Working on my next book–I continue to layout book #2 in my poetry series, Time Measured Out!: Navigating Life’s Journey Through Poetry. I am so glad I brought my iMac desktop with me in one of my three suitcases because I have to have two programs opened at the same time to do the layout. The large display makes it so easy!
  • No Episcopal Church—There is not an Episcopal church in Boquete, but there is one in David, 30 minutes away. In our town, there are Catholic churches and the Boquete Bible Fellowship. I plan on trying all of them out and deciding where I will land on a Sunday morning. For most of my adult life, I’ve attended the Episcopal church, so I look at this as a time of stretching me and my faith.
  • No dishwasher in our rental—So, we wash the dishes by hand. Lin and I have shared this new chore, but in so many ways, it’s not a chore. Here’s the view out our window over the sink:
View from the kitchen - similarities
  • No disherwasher continued—Fr. Tom Weston, one of my recovery mentors, introduced me to the Buddhist mindset of being present in daily tasks—chop wood and carry water. As I wash the dishes, I concentrate on being there, present, standing in front of this window, enjoying the view, the birds, the warm water, my homemade dishcloth in my hands. That’s always been a hard task for me. I’ve either wandered around the past or anticipated the future. But this so-called chore has slowed me down to appreciate this task I have taken for granted for years—because the dishwasher did it!
  • Spanish is the language—I was a Spanish teacher for fourteen years at the middle school level, but that was years ago. So, I’ve worked on renewing my knowledge of the language, using Duolingo daily for 216 days today! I also have the Babbel app and plan to use that too. When I have the opportunity, I speak as much Spanish as possible. Interestingly, the greeting here is “Buenos,” a shortening of “Buenos días!”  That has been a major adjustment.
  • No dancing yet—We knew there would not be any square or round dancing here, but Latin people love to dance, so we hope to get into salsa and whatever is the dance of Panama.
  • My next book launch—It will be harder to get a paperback here. Amazon delivers but I haven’t ordered anything yet. I’m apprehensive.
  • Getting my medicine from OptumRx—Again, it’s a shipping issue! I messed up on the first orders and hope two orders arrive this week. Now I know how to order it, so the next one will sail through easily, I hope!
  • The weather—We’re in the rainy season, so it rains every afternoon. It usually stops for the evening, but yesterday we had a downpour that lasted into the evening. Also, we don’t have the heat we did in New Mexico because we are in the mountains with our temperature averaging 75 year around.
  • Getting around—We rented a car this week and have enjoyed the freedom of going when we want without bothering our neighbors; however, they were always so ready to help. The streets of Boquete are narrow, so we drive more slowly.
  • No Starbucks—But Boquete is known for its coffee production. So we have coffee readily available. I drink decaf though, but Lin found some the other day at one of our favorite coffee shops, Kotowa.
  • Variety of Restaurants—We live 5-10 minutes away from about 125 restaurants, so variety is readily available.
  • Economy—We have found it to be less expensive here. A doctor’s visit without insurance cost us about $20 for both of us. I don’t dread a trip to the grocery store because the bill is much less. Our rental includes all the utilities, so we feel it’s a bargain.
  • Fresh Food—We love fresh papaya, mangoes, bananas and passion fruit and have them regularly. At the Thursday market last week, we bought fresh tuna caught that morning. Lin grilled a couple pieces and we added the largest avocado I’ve ever seen for our meal! We both love fish, so we look forward to many more fish meals with lots of fresh fruit and vegetables.

Yes, there are similarities that I have kept alive in my life in our move to Panama, but I wanted to share the differences because I hadn’t talked about them yet. Life here seems less stressful, less frantic and much more relaxed!

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