My Thoughts

Happy Easter, He is Risen & My Travel Day: How Do These Connect?

Happy Easter to all my readers. I’ve read several times on Threads today “He is risen.” We said it in my church service today. What does that really mean in my day-to-day life, like traveling home to Panama from Albuquerque?

I am a Christian and not reluctant to say it, but today it has such negative connotations. I’m a Christian who celebrates my God. I adhere to all of the Scriptures and know that because Jesus died for my sins and rose again, I am free of any sins of my past. My first mother-in-law told me back in 1973 that when God looks at me, He sees perfection because He looks through Jesus, if I have accepted Him. And I did back in the quaint Branson Community Church during Vacation Bible School when I was seven or eight!

After my divorce, I went crazy. I justified my actions because I had married young and felt I had the right to “sow my wild oats.” During this time of drinking and acting out, I piled up sin after sin. Today I know I am forgiven for it all.

You may wonder how a travel day connects to Easter and my Risen Lord. It does! On March 31, 2026, I arrived at the Albuquerque airport at 6:00 AM for my 8:00 AM flight to Houston. The United agent told me it was delayed by two hours because they needed a part that was being flown in from Denver. She did something unusual—she offered me a wheelchair. Yes, I’m 72 years old. I have an injured leg, so I can’t walk distances—how did she know I needed one The Houston airport is massive and with the delay would the walk to the next gate or concourse be too long? My Lord guided her to help me with this life-saving gesture!

Wheelchair - Happy Easter

Immediately I called my husband, Lin, and he suggested I call United and see if they could delay the Panama City flight in Houston. So, I did, and they said air traffic control would have to do that. They couldn’t, so that didn’t work.

At this point, I had looked on the United app and it suggested a convoluted route through Newark, New Jersey arriving in Panama City at 4:03 AM. I faltered—this 72-year-old lady couldn’t imagine staying up twenty-six or twenty-seven hours. It also offered I spend the night in Albuquerque and go out the next day—the problem for me: I had a flight to David from Panama City at 8:00 AM on April 1, so that wouldn’t work.

The delay extended to three hours, and there was no way I’d make the connections in Houston to my Panama City flight. So, the attendant at the gate, Patricia, went above and beyond her duties to help me, but originally, I didn’t like her offer—Houston to Newark, New Jersey then Newark to Panama City, arriving at 4:03 AM! She suggested we wait to see if the crew and pilot would arrive early and maybe we would get off in time. What a Godsend she was!

They didn’t, so I took Patricia up on her itinerary. I’m glad I worked with her, because she arranged different flights than the United app had suggested.

When I arrived in Houston, there was a wheelchair waiting at the gate for me, so she wheeled me to my next gate which was quite a walk for sure. I had enough time to eat a midday meal because I wasn’t sure when I would get to eat again.

My whole attitude changed somehow when I talked to my husband. He helped me reframe this experience. I could do it! In the end, I would do it! I laughed deeply—flying all the way across the United States to Newark to go to Panama City, Panama. How absurd!

Once again, a person met me at the plane with a wheelchair. Thank God, because I arrived right when they were loading my next flight.

Because the plane wasn’t crowded, we had an empty seat between us and I stretched out my bad leg and slept some.

Woman sitting on plane - Happy Easter

I arrived in Panama City before 4:00 AM. Once again, someone met me at the plane and wheeled me to baggage claim with one carry-on suitcase underneath and one between my legs. Then he retrieved my two large suitcases. Then he got me through customs quickly. I told him I had a flight to David, so up the elevator he took me and I landed right at the Copa Airlines agent to check in.

My Lord’s presence permeates this whole experience with the wheelchair, the helpful agents and the amazing people who man the wheelchairs in our airports.

He is Risen - Happy Easter

So here we are at Easter. I celebrated with my church in Albuquerque, New Mexico via Facebook Live. I sang the familiar songs but felt “He is Risen” so deeply this year. There is no way I could have maneuvered that travel day without His hand on every leg of it. That’s the way my God works.

But over the years, I realized I had to be aware of His hand on the specifics of my life. For years, I walked through life, not seeing it. Today He’s everywhere!

so yes, there’s a variety of Christian experiences out there. I had to share this one on this Holy Day! Many times during my day, I see my Lord’s hand on my life in subtle ways—I call them “God Things.” How about you?

Larada Horner-Miller photo - Happy Easter
Happy Easter—He is Risen indeed!

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My Thoughts · My Writing

Creativity and Inspiration: From Where Does It Come?

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Creativity and inspiration baffle me at times. From where do they come? Can you summon them? Do they have anything to do with the muses? On the train on Friday, I had a fascinating experience with one and another Sunday morning.

Amtrak Picture - Creative

Once again, I rode the Amtrak train from Raton, New Mexico to Albuquerque. I spent time checking email, updating the banner for my Facebook Author’s page, and updating the banner for my weekly blog to change to “spring.” Then I started working on my new book.

Writing on a computer - creative

I’m stumped because of advice I received from Ceylan, one of the editors at Let’s Fix Stories podcast that gave me such valuable advice. She said I had to ground any flashback in the five senses: sound, sight, taste, touch and smell. This book has tons of flashbacks because it’s the story of my incest as a child, and it’s told from the adult point of view. It baffled me how to do this—so as I kept going around and round, I decided it was time to stop!

Booties I Knitted - Creative
Booties I Knitted

After working on the computer, my eyes hurt and felt dry up and itchy and I was stumped, so I turned to my knitting. I love to knit and have made ten pairs of booties for a project I’m involved with in Panama. Knitting has a rhythmic, meditative quality to it. The train rumbled down the track, my needles softly brushed passed each other. Relaxation hit as I worked.  As I sat and knitted, the answer for the flashbacks came to me immediately. It was like the lights came on! Creativity at its best!

So I have my answer! Now I just need to revise my chapters that have flashbacks.

Waking up - creative

At 5:00 AM this morning, I woke from my sleep. Immediately I realized I couldn’t do what I had planned to do tomorrow because I had to return my rental car at 5:00 PM. Tomorrow’s a busy day for me: I have a 9:15 AM appointment with my podiatrist to try a custom orthotic he made for me, and hopefully it fits. Then I have a 1:30 PM appointment for another hearing test, this time with the man who might fit me with hearing aids. The receptionist told me to block out one and a half hours for the appointment. In between the two appointments I need to run by Walmart for a couple things and also Merle Norman. I use my time in Albuquerque to stock up on items I can’t get in Panama or would be expensive to ship.

What I planned to do after the hearing aids appointment was to go with my friend, Sheri, up to Tijeras, 18 miles away to the post office and gather our mail and stop it. Then I wanted to go by the house one last time to say good-bye at the graveside of my precious cat, Jesse. After that, we planned to go to our storage unit and return some items I got at the first of month and retrieve more things Lin and I wanted to take back to Panama.

This trip to Tijeras and back and all that activity would go way beyond 5:00 PM!

This wasn’t necessarily something that contributed creatively to my writing, but I felt the inspiration from my God that certainly saved me from a costly mistake.

Helping hands - creative

I often have these creative moments, this inspirations. I call them “God Thing.” Often it happens by turning away from my work and doing something else or going to sleep. Yes, sometimes I do my best thinking asleep!

How about you? Have you ever experienced a “God Thing?”

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When will that creativity and inspiration happen again? I can hardly wait!
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Cover of the Month

Time Measured Out!: Navigating Life’s Journey Through Poetry

Hey Everyone,
I’m excited to tell you that my book has been nominated for the “Cover of the Month” contest on AllAuthor.com. This will help me a lot if I could see some votes coming in, so please remember to vote my book.
Vote Now »
Thanks,
Larada Horner-Miller

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My Newest Books

Time Measured Out!: Navigating Life’s Journey Through Poetry, Book #2 e-book

ISBN – 9798989688654

$.99 for limited time

is my truth universal? book cover

Is My Truth Universal?: A Woman’s Poetic Odyssey e-book

ISBN – 979-8989688623

ALWAYS FREE

Was It a Dream? book cover

Was It a Dream?: Navigating Life’s Journey Through Poetry, Book #1 – e-book

ISBN – 979-8989688630

 $3.99


Buy My Audio Books:

This Tumbleweed Landed

Let Me Tell You a Story 

Hair on Fire: A Heartwarming & Humorous Memoir Audiobook


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Book Production · My Books · My Thoughts · Writing

A Book Cover: Is it a Secret Weapon?

Larada Horner-Miller's 4 newest book covers

Is a book cover a secret weapon to get books sold? Many people think so. What does research say? I know what I’ve done recently!

“A high-quality book cover not only looks great, but also communicates its genre and attracts the “right” readers with relevant trends, color schemes, and more.”

https://reedsy.com/blog/guide/book-cover-design

“Studies show that 79% of people make a split-second decision about picking up a book based solely on its cover, according to design platform Wixel.”

https://mixam.com/blog/education/how-book-cover-design-drives-sales#:~:text=Introduction,according%20to%20design%20platform%20Wixel.

For my first three books, I designed the cover, not knowing any better, but since then I have had 100Covers.com do my covers. Why? Because I believed the research stated above.

I love what 100Covers.com have produced, and they are so easy to work with. We collaborate with resources I find and shared with them. Then they did the magic and created eye-appealing covers.

Somewhere I found a review I ignored about my first book, This Tumbleweed Land’s cover. On the original cover, I had a text box covering the tumbleweed in the picture. That’s the theme of this book, so what a revelation. I loved the photo I used with Mesa de Maya in the background (noted on some of the first maps every made of the southeastern part of Colorado). But that mesa wasn’t mentioned in my book, so I had 100Covers.com redo it and I released it last week.

Here’s the comparison:

What do you think?

Time Measured Out! book cover

Time Measured Out!: Navigating Life’s Journey Through Poetry is in a nonfiction book cover right now on AllAuthor.com. It has entered the final round and the winners (1st, 2nd and 3rd) will be announced March 31.

Right now my book cover is in 2nd place with 120 votes, but with another book, The Amazing Dinosaur Dictionary for Kids, hovers right behind me with 119 votes.

What do you think?

The book cover in first place, Phoenix Rising, has 186 votes.

Here’s it’s cover:

Phoenix Rising book cover

So, I would appreciate your vote at https://allauthor.com/cover-of-the-month/20500/ to keep me in a solid 2nd place and maybe jump up and take over 1st place.

Hair On Fire Wins 1st play in the AllAuthor.com nonfiction book cover contest, May 2024

Hair on Fire: A Heartwarming & Humorous Christmas Memoir received 1st place in the nonfiction book cover contest at AllAuthor.com in May, 2024. It was so exciting to communicate with my different social media sites and my email lists to encourage people to vote, and I received comments back that encouraged me. They came through repeatedly, and this award added prestigious to my book.

I have heard repeatedly from my many mentors the importance of my book covers. I truly believe a book cover can be a secret weapon to get people to buy and read my books.

If you missed the importance of your vote, it could make the difference for my book’s winning stance or not. Put down your cup of coffee, your beer, your book or your knitting. It will only take a couple minutes. Grab your phone, iPad or computer and go to https://allauthor.com/cover-of-the-month/20500/

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Vote like my book’s life depends on it because it does!

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My Newest Books

Time Measured Out!: Navigating Life’s Journey Through Poetry, Book #2 e-book

ISBN – 9798989688654

$.99 for limited time

is my truth universal? book cover

Is My Truth Universal?: A Woman’s Poetic Odyssey e-book

ISBN – 979-8989688623

ALWAYS FREE

Was It a Dream? book cover

Was It a Dream?: Navigating Life’s Journey Through Poetry, Book #1 – e-book

ISBN – 979-8989688630

 $3.99


Buy My Audio Books:

This Tumbleweed Landed

Let Me Tell You a Story 

Hair on Fire: A Heartwarming & Humorous Memoir Audiobook


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My Thoughts · My Writing · Sexual Abuse

Women’s History Month: Honoring My Courage to Write!

Women's History Month - courage

March is Women’s History Month, and for the last three years, I’ve written about women in my life to celebrate this month. Now, I’m moving forever with a new book I can’t be afraid to publish, so I’m honoring my courage to write.

“Everything in life is writable about if you have the outgoing guts to do it, and the imagination to improvise. The worst enemy to creativity is self-doubt.”

— Sylvia Plath

Start - Courage

I wrote 50,000 words of my new book in November, 2016, during NaNoWriMo (National Novel Writing Month) Month. The genre is an AutoFiction (autobiography fiction) where I fictionalized my story of incest. I put it aside when another timely book project fell into my lap.

Last year, when the Epstein Files surfaced once again, it dawned on me I needed to return to this book. I didn’t just want to share my incest story but the healing I’ve experienced over the last thirty-seven years. So many incest survivors’ lives end too soon or the survivor chooses drugs or alcohol to medicate the pain. Or the survivor chooses to act out sexually and ends up a prostitute or a pole dancer in a strip joint. Or the choice is suicide.

Because I found recovery thirty-seven years ago, I am still alive and have found healing in a variety of ways.

Learn from the past - courage

Recovery offered me deep healing that led me to other healing opportunities.

At first, I was angry at God and stayed away from my church for over twenty years, but I returned about fifteen years ago and love it still.

For years, I sought out healing through therapy. At first after my first marriage, I followed conventional lines and went to a psychiatrist. Sadly, I was still drinking so I didn’t receive much help, but I kept the door open.

In 1988, I went to Codependency Treatment. I had started attending CoDA meeting prior to that, and those meetings introduced me to recovery meetings. It was at this treatment center I realized I was an alcoholic. I had used alcohol to medicate my hidden pain.

In 1993, I went to Sexual Trauma Treatment because I had two childhood memory flashbacks bombarding me. At this place, they helped me to sort through the memories and reconcile what they were. Also, they introduced me to Sand Play Therapy there.

After that, I found a fantastic Sand Play therapist who I worked with for over twenty years.

A few years ago, I joined an International Meditation group which has contributed to my healing by slowing me down and taking time to listen.

All of these different avenues helped heal me.

Last year, I did EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing) therapy because of the dog attack I had in 2024, but we had to go back in my history to some of those incest memories to deepen the healing. This therapist helped me brainstorm possible ways to become an advocate for survivors, and I remembered my book.

In this new book, I plan to mix my story with a fictional landscape and other characters. I know that’s this topic is intimate and maybe a trigger for some, but I have summoned my deepest courage to continue with this project and finish it. I felt an urgency today to address the courage it takes to write about this.

Hopefully you will support me in this endeavor.

AllAuthor.com Nonfiction Book Cover Contest – Time Measured Out! has slipped to #7, so go and vote ASAP at https://allauthor.com/cover-of-the-month/20500/

Larada meme - courage
Join me on my journey!

Professional Reader


My Newest Books

Time Measured Out!: Navigating Life’s Journey Through Poetry, Book #2 e-book

ISBN – 9798989688654

$.99 for limited time

is my truth universal? book cover

Is My Truth Universal?: A Woman’s Poetic Odyssey e-book

ISBN – 979-8989688623

ALWAYS FREE

Was It a Dream? book cover

Was It a Dream?: Navigating Life’s Journey Through Poetry, Book #1 – e-book

ISBN – 979-8989688630

 $3.99


Buy My Audio Books:

This Tumbleweed Landed

Let Me Tell You a Story 

Hair on Fire: A Heartwarming & Humorous Memoir Audiobook


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