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More of Beautiful Boquete: Our Scouting Trip, Week #3

We scouted more in our third week in Boquete! Using our time wisely, we took advantage of our tour guide and the free time afterwards.

On previous Friday, we had a full day with Jason, our professional tour guide, looking around Boquete, and we met a couple he had worked with who are building a house as we speak. They offered for us to come and see it.

So the first stop Monday morning with Jason on our second day of touring was their new house. What a ride that was—up the mountain above Boquete on a rocky primitive road demanding a four-wheel drive. But what a treat! They’ve designed an amazing large home away from the hustle and bustle of Boquete with panoramic views and too amenities to list! The wife gave us an extensive tour of the house while her husband continued to plant various plants on their property for a variety of reasons, each thought out carefully.

Afterwards, we continued our tour of the higher areas above Boquete to get a fill for the different areas and microclimates. This tour I wrote twelve pages of notes—again only I can decipher the writing because of the rocky roads.

We saw several developments around this couple’s house: La Estrella, Lucero, Lemon Grove. Then we went back to Boquete and went up the mountain to the misty area and saw these developments:

  • Los Naranjos – an area near Boquete but up the mountain, so more rain and fog—”mist” is what Jason called it!
  • Alto Quiel – which was too expensive for our blood but enjoyed seeing it.

Next, we enjoyed one stop along the way, Finca Lerida, a coffee farm, where we enjoyed a latte and sweet treat and hummingbirds! Jason loves birding, so he had his equipment with him. He used a special telescope on a tripod and attached my iPhone to it and we got this amazing video of a precious hummingbird! And the photo, too!

We videotaped a hummingbird using Jason’s telescope and my iPhone!
Jason & Lin with his telescope, ready to tape the hummingbird, Finca Lerida, Boquete, Panama
Jason & Lin with his telescope, ready to tape the hummingbird at Finca Lerida

we continued touring, seeing

Lin at the basalt climbing wall at Los Ladrillos, Boquete, Panama
Lin at the basalt climbing wall at Los Ladrillos

At this point, both of us thought Alto Lino or Palo Alto—they moved to the top of our list to explore later in the week on own! Maybe we would land here! We liked that it was two minutes to Boquete and near restaurants.

As we drove, Jason answered many questions we had about the rainy season versus the dry season, where to use our ATM card, etc. He also showed us several AirBnBs for our next trip back.

We stopped for lunch at the Sugar & Spice Restaurant and Bakery. During lunch, we enjoyed meeting one amiable ex-pat and one super negative one. We escaped him as quickly as possible.

Then we went to the lower elevation of Alto Boquete towards David. Because we moved to lower elevation, the temperature rose and the wind blew.

We went through

  • El Frances
    • Gated community, still building with rough roads. Jason had us do a temperature test there: we got out of the truck and walked a little. IT WAS HOT—very different from Boquete.
    • They have a bilingual school, International Academy, known to be the best school in the area. The students have no homework and they attend from 8:00 AM – 3:00 PM.
  • From there, we went on an adventure! We took a back road to Caldera, but the road disappeared, so we turned around and backtracked.

As we drove, Lin asked for suggestions in buying a car. Jason offered for his sage advice! He also suggested to live near a politician, becausse they have the best roads and internet!

Then to end our tour, we drove back towards our hotel to the Volcancito area.

We went up Volcano road towards Volcán Barú, but we couldn’t go all the way up because it requires a four-wheel drive to get to the summit. But we saw another development, Santa Sophia with lots costing $150,000! We ended this tour high up the mountain, overlooking Boquete from another vantage point at the Cerro Verde development. What an amazing view! And what a wonderful day.

We had hired a tour guide for the other city we might move to, Volcan, but I woke up sick with my stomach issues. So, we postponed the trip to Saturday, and I slept the day away.

When I felt better, we had a late lunch at the Boquete Sandwich Shop. I had black bean soup and ginger ale; however, I split a piece of delicious carrot cake with Lin. This place became one of our favorites because of the manager and Kimberley, a waiter!

We played cribbage in the evening and watched TV—very much a down day for us!

We woke early and did our morning routine of showering, cribbage and breakfast. As we left our hotel, a dog from a nearby house charged u, and it scared me—reminiscent of the vicious dog attack I’m trying to recover from. Lin managed it and I got in the car, but—OMG!

From there we went downtown Boquete for my first of three Panamanian physical therapy appointments. What I experienced was amazing! I had researched online treatment for the nerve damage I have – CRPS – Chronic Regional Pain Syndrome. And she did a couple of them.

First, she did deep oscillation for fifteen minutes from the bottom of my foot to my butt. Second, she did an ice pack on the whole area for ten minutes. Third, she did electrodes for fifteen minutes, increasing the stimulation as I could stand it. Fourth, she massaged me from foot to butt. Then she had me do several exercises. The appointment lasted an hour, and cost me (without insurance) $25! Wow!

Afterwards, I met Lin in the same shopping mall at Kotowa, a coffee shop much like Starbucks, for a drink. We booked a tour of a coffee farm, Finca Casanga, for the next day nearby. Then we attempted to use our ATM card at one of the banks, but it didn’t work. We enjoyed a light lunch and went to the hotel.

In checking my email, I got an outrageous bill for our phones. We have AT&T. Before we left, I researched and called to confirm we had usage in Panama like in the USA. Yes, but I ASSUMED that covered our iPads, too! No, this unfortunate lesson cost us about $200! Live and learn.

That evening we had dinner with Ruth and John, our dance friends from the US. We ate at the Smurf restaurant—really a Peruvian restaurant. Its official name is Restaurante La Cueva Del Pitufo. It’s called the Smurf restaurant because for some reason, they have a Smurf on their sign! No clue!

We sat outside and enjoyed getting reacquainted. They shared lots of important information about moving to Panama and Boquete. Afterwards, we went to see Jason, our tour guide’s basketball game at 9:30 PM. They were in the middle of the semi-finals for the city league for men over forty. They won, and Ruth and I cheered like crazy—much noisier than the rest of the crowd!

The night before, we made a plan to meet Ruth and John at the Thursday Boquete Community Market. Ruth personally took us around and introduced us to people in booths there that she thought we needed to know! The people welcomed us with open arms. It was a mixture of locals and ex-pats.

At one booth, I met a fellow-knitter and ex-pat, Brandy Gregory, who started the Boquete Knitters & Quilters group. This service group provides baby items because she found out that some of the local natives, Ngabe-Bugle, brought their newborn baby to the hospital wrapped in a newspaper. I know I will participate when we move there, but they meet every Friday from 1:00-3:00 PM, about the same time as the Boquete writing group, so I will have to alternate!

Then we returned to the Kotowa Coffee Shop for lunch because it was next door to the pick-up place for the coffee farm tour. Also, we successfully got money using our ATM—Yahooo!

Because it’s the slow season, we had a private tour of Finca Casanga. The owner’s wife, Andi, picked us up and immediately started sharing information about living in the Boquete area and moving to Panama. She suggested three areas in Alto Boquete: Palmeira, Las Brisas and behind the Ivan store, towards David. She warned us about black mold in the higher elevations above Boquete. No one else had mentioned that.

We enjoyed Marty, our tour guide, shocked at the long, arduous process it takes to get the coffee bean to the end product. Near the end of the tour, we had the pleasure of roasting coffee beans, packaging and naming our blend. Lin named it “Larada’s Blend.” Then Marty brewed the same coffee blend, using three different methods: French Roast, Italian Expresso and Siphon Brew. It shocked me how different each of the brewing methods changed the flavor of the coffee. We ended with a sample of their Geisha coffee!

On the drive back to our car, Andi continued to give us more information about various developments around Boquete. We sat in her car for more than fifteen minutes in the rain with her sharing valuable tidbits!

As you can see, we filled less than a week with lots of activity. As we toured with Jason, I made note of the different areas, the difference in the microclimates and started putting together a bigger plan.

So, join me next week for the end of our scouting trip to Boquete and our return to Panama City and trip back to the USA. Whew! What a full week!



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Our Scouting Trip — Boquete, Panama: Week #2

Our Scouting Trip - Flower & Coffee Festival Ground, Boquete, Panama
Our Scouting Trip – Flower & Coffee Festival Ground, Boquete, Panama

Our scouting trip to Boquete and Volcan began. The official work in Panamá City faded behind us—now to decide what area of Panamá we wanted to live.

Again, we rose early at 5:00 AM to fly to David, a short flight in a smaller aircraft on Copa Airlines. Our dependable Uber driver, Yoel, picked us up at 5:45 AM, and we enjoyed a quiet ride to the airport with not a lot of people out.

When we arrived in David, we deplaned on the tarmac—small airport! Anna, our driver from Cowboy Cars, drove us to Boquete to get our rental car. She spoke little English, but we communicated in my and Lin’s Spanish and her limited English.

After we picked up our car in Boquete, we used the navigation app, Waze, to find our hotel, Casa Reina, Alejandro Villa. We wove our way through a residential area, then Waze directed us off on a dirt road that turned into a primitive rocky, dirt road. It was worth it though—our hotel was new, clean and perched on a cliff overlooking Boquete below. The Volcano, Volcán Barú, towered behind us over the city in the distance. But the electricity was off.

After asking the maid, she offered to do our week’s laundry for about $11—we felt that was a good deal for sure! And she finished it and had it in our room when we returned. The electricity was back when we returned.

Sadly, Lin arrived in Boquete with a cold. In driving through the mountainous town of Boquete, we found a much sought after parking space in front of a pharmacy. I went in to see if they had any of our medicines and if I could get something for Lin’s cold. The pharmacist didn’t speak English, but we conversed! We both used the app, Google Translate, and it was hilarious!

We ate our first meal at Retrogusto—delicious food! Next, we went to Rey, the largest and newest grocery store, to stock up on groceries. Lin immediately bought a papaya and enjoyed it!

Lin Enjoying Papaya! Yum! Scouting
Lin Enjoying Papaya! Yum!
Looking down from our hotel - scouting
Looking down from our hotel

We slept in after our days of early risings. Lin’s cold worsened, so it was a good to have a leisure day. After breakfast in, Lin brewed coffee for us and we sat on our balcony overlooking a part of Boquete—you can see Rey, the grocery store below us.

After Lin rested, we took a drive through Boquete up to Jaramillo, a development higher in the mountains and where friends of ours are moving. Lush green, mist hanging over the mountain tops!

During our drive, we found where the Boquete Writing Group meets—yahoooo! Lin researched on the internet before we leave Tijeras and found them. We ate at BlancTerra Restaurant and had another great meal, enjoying the lemonade varieties!

Back at our hotel on the balcony, at about 4:45 PM, we watched the fog roll in—all the mountains covered and then it thundered! We played cribbage and watched TV, a nice relaxing day to unwind.

Why did I wake so early? 6:00 AM! Oh, well! We played cribbage, ate breakfast and left our room at 10:00 AM so they could clean it.

On a mission, we found where the AA meetings are held! I had downloaded information, but apparently it was old. We went back and forth on the major road to David, feeling it was there somewhere. Finally, we found new information on the internet, and there it was with a big sign with the traditional symbol visible! We had passed it several times and never noticed it.

Then we went downtown to find the physical therapy location. Luckily, I made an appointment for the next Wednesday. Afterwards, we drove back down the road to David and ate lunch at El Granito de Oro Restaurant, next to the AA Clubhouse. While we ate, the Catholic church named their new Pope—how exciting! I will never forget the moment and where I was! As I read more of the pope’s position on different areas, I became a fan of Pope Leo XIV! I had a blast messaging the members of my international meditation group about him.

At 2:00 PM, I attended an AA meeting, getting acquainted with the local recovery community. While I shared, the rain came and down poured! I had to shout so they could hear me! Welcome to the tropics!

Once again, we returned to our room after 4:00 PM to look out on our balcony and see the fog roll in! We played cribbage again and then watched another movie!

At 8:00 AM, our tour with Jason Lara began! I took fifteen pages of notes in my 6 X 9 notebook. He told us specific information about Boquete—different places to live, the difference between Baja Boquete and Alto Boquete, Jaramillo, Los Naranjos. All of these are like suburbs of Boquete. For clarity, he made us aware of multiple microclimates in a short distance there.

“The mountainous area of the central spine of Panama has the most microclimates because it is impacted by both oceans and mountains.  The Boquete area alone has 13 microclimates.” from https://livinginpanama.com/climate-weather/

As Jason drove, we went higher and higher up into the mountains. Looking out over what appeared to be jungle, he pointed out shiny leaves and that coffee plants dotted both sides of the road. We were driving through coffee farms that looked nothing like what I thought they would. We ended up at the Café Mirador Crystal, and enjoyed a latte and gorgeous view of Alto Boquete, below Boquete. When we talked about the torrential rains, Jason said, “The streams get mad.” I loved how he phrased that.

Looking down at Alto Boquete from Cafe Mirador Crystal- scouting
Looking down at Alto Boquete from Cafe Mirador Crystal

 Early in our conversation with Jason, he commented that he knew a couple, John and Ruth, who we square and round danced with. I racked my brain! Lin and I have danced all over the USA. At lunch time, he showed me a picture and I gasped! I knew Ruth really well. They met at the Duke City Singles Spring Fling in 2003 and married! I was the chairperson for that event! OMG! So, after our lunch at the Boquete Sandwich Shop, we drove over to see them. What a reunion that was! We sat and visited for an hour or so. On top of that, they rented a house from Jason’s family.

Afterwards, we drove through many more areas but stopped at a house of one of Jason’s previous clients had rented. So gracious, they spent over an hour telling us about their experience there. They rented the house we stopped at, but are building one as we speak.

From there we went down to Alto Boquete and Dolega, the warmer and windier parts of the Boquete district.

Jason told us as our day ended, he had a town team (over 40) basketball game that evening so we went to watch them. What a treat! Luckily, it appeared to be the quarter or semi-finals.

Learning about the area of our hotel, we woke up intermittent available water, so no showers! Oh, my! After a leisure morning, we drove over to Volcan, one of the towns we were considering. But the reason for this trip: a reunion of Lin and Wilbur!

The day before, Jason showed us the best road to take to Volcan, instead of a crazy, windy road! It was a bittersweet reunion. Lin hadn’t seen Wilbur in nearly thirty years, knowing him when he lived in Costa Rica. Wilbur had aged a lot. He was recovering from a broken leg, so he walked with a cane. Lin wasn’t sure he really remembered him. We met his daughter and son who planned to continue his flower business.

From there we drove up through Volcan to find Hotel Bambito, a hotel and restaurant Lin knew thirty years ago. First, we drove on up to Cerro Punta, the bread basket of Panama with agriculture all around us! When we returned, we ate at the restaurant at Hotel Bambito, and Lin connected with the restaurant maître d who had been there when he ate there years ago and who knew Wilbur. What a wonderful connection!

Cerro Punta sign - scouting
Cerro Punta sign

What an active week, so we slept in. Then we played cribbage before going to downtown for brunch. We ate at the Boquete Sandwich Shop. Normally Lin makes blueberry pancakes on Sundays, so we had to have pancakes! Wow! They were thick and delicious. During breakfast, we visited with a young man from Idaho.

Afterwards we walked around downtown, looking at what the stores had to offer. We also looked in the tourist shops, and boy, was it hard not to by souvenirs for myself! I did buy my brother a Panamá shot glass. Then we walked through the Flower and Coffee Festival grounds—a flower explosion and it’s not even festival time.

Our day ended with another movie.

As you can see, we filled this week with all we could. Lin recovered from his cold in record time. Why a scouting trip? With all the variables in the Boquete/Volcan area, we had been advised to come and check it out for ourselves.

It felt like a successful scouting trip so far. Next week, I continue with this scouting trip to Boquete.


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A Backpack & A Carryon: For Three Weeks! Week #1

Backpack & carryon luggage

Lin and I just returned from Panama on a three-week scouting trip, and we only took a backpack & a carryon suitcase each—that’s it for our luggage! Anyone that’s traveled with me knows I usually have my largest suitcase, so why?

As Lin researched this trip and gathered information from seasoned travelers, a friend told us it was a good way to go so we wouldn’t have to deal with checking any luggage. United and Copa airlines both charge for checked luggage also. So, we did laundry twice. I followed the 3-1-1 rule and put all my makeup and hair stuff in plastic bottles in a quart ziplock bag. However, I had to used some of Lin’s quart baggie for some of my stuff. Surprisingly it worked easily! Also I bought only one souvenir for my brother—a shot glass!

Our Trip

Us Leaving Albuquerque
Us Leaving Albuquerque

We left here on Monday, April 28 for Panama City bright and early. Again, a friend suggested we stay at this hotel, the Magnolia Inn, they had used in Casco Viejo, similar to Old Town Albuquerque. We stayed there a week doing the footwork and paperwork to finalize our temporary visas and driver’s licenses with our immigration lawyer. And we had plenty of off time to tour Casco Viejo!

On Tuesday we met our immigration lawyer at the American Embassy housed on the old Fort Clayton. “Fort Clayton was located northwest of Balboa, Panama, with the Panama Canal located nearby. It closed in 1999 pursuant to the Torrijos-Carter Treaties.”

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Fort_Clayton

It was simply a paperwork transaction of verifying our driver’s license—the first step in the process after already having gotten other significant paperwork authenticated at the Panamanian consulate in Washington, DC before we arrived. That paperwork was sent to our lawyer in Panama.

Afterwards we waited for any communication from the lawyer, but he basically said it would be Friday or Monday before we finished up.

Our Free Time in Panama City

So we became tourists and enjoyed Casco Viejo.

On Wednesday, we did a free walking tour that started at our hotel. What a great idea! Elmer, the tour guide, showed us the highlights of the area. The highlight for me was the Geisha Coffee Experience. I had never heard of this super expensive coffee that tastes like strong tea and smells like jasmine. We saw it for as much as $37 a cup in a coffee house! It’s grown in the Boquete area of Panama near the Volcán Barú.

Altar at the Church of San Jose - backpack

We also saw the golden altar at Church of San Jose which a priest saved from Sir Henry Morgan and pirates in the 17th century by painting it with ashes and deceiving Morgan from stealing it. What a brilliant deception!

That evening, we ventured out for dinner after going to the grocery store for some things for me. In our walking, we saw some policemen and asked where to eat. They suggested the “La Fonda,” so down the hill we walked and found it. What a Panamanian delight! We enjoyed an evening of traditional food and folk dance.

Mola displace at the Mola Museum - backpack

On Thursday, we went to the Mola museum. Jennifer, our immigration lawyer’s helper told us about it when I shared an interest in the local indigenous cultures. It happened to be just a couple blocks from our hotel.

“The Mola Museum is a “virtual museum” dedicated to the art of the Kuna (Guna) Indians. The Kunas live on the San Blas Islands east of Panama, in the Darien region of Panama, and in Colombia. Kuna women make and wear blouses decorated with appliqued cloth, reverse appliqued cloth and embroidery. The blouses, and their decorative front and rear panels, are referred to as molas.”

https://museodelamola.org/en

The molas are so beautiful and colorful!

On Friday, we went to the Panama Canal museum. It’s so big we took a break (because they let you go in and out) and went back for more and still didn’t see all of it. Again, it was just a couple blocks from our hotel. Staying in Casco Viejo turned out to be a Godsend! Afterwards, we went to the book store, but they had a limited selection of books in English, so we passed.

On Saturday, we went to Monkey Island, a major tour attraction in the area. To get there, we rode in a boat across Gatun Lake within the Panama Canal and saw big tankers heading towards the locks. We saw three types of monkeys: white-faced capuchin monkeys, Geoffroy’s titi monkeys and howler monkeys. We lured some curious ones to the boat with grapes. They were hilarious with their antics—so fast on their grab that we couldn’t get a picture.

Then we went to the Miraflores Visitor Center and saw the IMAX documentary, A Land Divided, A World United, narrated by Morgan Freeman. Afterwards we waited for a ship to go through the locks. Our tour guide had a great app, MarineTraffic, which showed us the queue of the ships lined up to go into the locks.

Finally, the ship arrived and we joined the crowd on the viewing area in the hot, hot sun. It takes a ship eight to ten hours to go through the Panama Canal. Panama earns twenty-five million dollars a day off of the canal—that’s unbelievable!

That evening we went out to dinner with friends we’ve met through Panama Relocations Tour, a tool many use to relocate to Panama.

On Sunday we relaxed and got the timing for our big day on Monday to get our temporary visas and Panamanian driver’s license

The day we have been waiting for for four months! On Monday, we got up 5:00 AM to meet our immigration lawyer at 7:00 AM at the Migracíon Panamá. Being anxious, we had our Uber driver pick us up at 5:45 PM, not knowing how long it would take to get there. We arrived at 6:05!

Our lawyer arrived a little late. At 7:00 AM, everyone stood up and they raised their flag. Then the action started. We went downstairs, waited a few minutes then went individually to a desk and gave them our prepared documents from our lawyer. A few minutes later, we walked out with our temporary visa card with our picture on it.

Larada & Lin with our temporary visas & driver's licenses
Larada & Lin with our temporary visas & driver’s licenses

Then our wonderful Uber driver got us a driver to go to Sertracen Panamá to get our driver’s license. We were supposed to meet Jennifer, the assistant, there at 9:00 AM, so being early, we grabbed a latte and a sweet treat. It wasn’t clear what we needed to have for the license, especially for our age. Supposedly we needed blood tests and a cognitive test.

Our coffee and sweets caused Lin’s glucose level on the blood test to be higher than normal. The only cognitive test we decided was answering any questions the doctor asked about our medicines we take.

So we got our licenses easily with a hearing and sight test. We walked out excited with our accomplishments. To celebrate we ate lunch at a Turkish restaurant! Panama City is a multi-cultural city for sure!

On Tuesday, we got up early again to catch our plane to David. Again our dependable Uber driver arrived at 5:45 AM. We easily and quickly got to the airport. Our short flight to David felt crowded in a smaller plane. We deplaned on the tarmac and were thankful for only our backpacks and carryon luggage!

Anna, from Cowboy Cars Rental in Boquete, picked us up and the next leg of our adventure began—two weeks exploring Boquete as our possible future home.

because Lin had done the research and we found a dependable immigration lawyer through Panama Relocation Tours, this week’s tasks went by perfectly. We had been told we needed five days, so that’s why we stayed over the weekend making Monday our fifth day. Also, we had a great time exploring Casco Viejo and other attraction near Panama City. Our backpacks and carryon luggage still had some clean clothes to wear but not too many.

Next week, see what we did for our first week in Boquete.


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A Redhead Once Again!

I’m a redhead once again! I’ve not felt like it for the past seven months—but I decided last Thursday it was time, time to reclaim my life.

I’m not a natural redhead, so I became a redhead from a bottle. In fact, over the last seven months, I noticed a strong growth of white hair around my face—not a lot sprinkled elsewhere, but some! I inherited my dark hair color from my mom and grandmother and our German roots.

My dad was a redhead, so much so his nickname as a young man was “Red.” I never knew him as a redhead because his hair had thinned out and changed to a brown speckled with some gray. I learned about this nickname years later from one of his friends.

My half-sister and half-brother both were redheads, and I always admired their hair color growing up!

In May 2007, Kathi Raver, Lin’s deceased wife, Lin, Ted and I were at a square and round dance festival in Norfolk, Nebraska. The morning after the festival, we had a delicious breakfast at a local restaurant, rivaling in the fun memories of the weekend and were standing in line to pay.

Kathi noticed a woman in line ahead of us and said to me with a mischievous twinkle in her eyes, “Go ask that woman what color she uses. You would look good with that color hair.”

I looked at the woman’s flaming red hair and felt a nudge inside, so I walked up to her, and asked what color she used—”Hot Tamale by Garnier Nutrisse.” I shared this information with Kathi when I returned and tucked it away.

At that point in my life, I hadn’t reconsidered coloring my hair. I had been a beautician for fourteen years before I became a teacher. I experimented regularly with coloring my hair. In fact, I volunteered to be the first to have my hair “frosted” in Beauty School only to end up with a green cast to my frost.

For many years, I bleached out the “frame” around my face and experimented with a variety of shades of color, from silver to pink. Right before my best friend’s wedding, I “framed” my face with red—fire engine red, and it horrified her when she saw me because my maid-of-honor dress was peach, and I was to wear a peach hat. What a clashing color combination that was!

So, I came home from Nebraska and pondered the possibility but didn’t do anything immediately. In June or July, I went to Colorado to visit my mom and told her about the idea. She always loved to do adventurous things with her hair, so we did it.

When I came home a redhead, Ted’s only comment was, “So you did it!” I continued coloring my hair until October or November and decided it was too much work.

Fast forward to 2013. My mom passed away in March, and in the summer, I needed an uplift—I remembered the “Hot Tamale” color and went for it. I loved the new me in the mirror and I received lots of compliments. It felt right!

Garnier Nutrisse did away with “Hot Tamale” a few years ago, so I changed to “Red Hibiscus” and have loved it ever since.

I continued coloring my hair until July, 2024 when the dog viciously attacked me. To say the less—I focused on recovering and making it through another day. At first, I couldn’t stand easily and used a cane. Then it just slipped past me. In fact, it was too much to do in my mind with all the doctor’s appointments and the pain.

About 4-5 months after the dog attack, someone asked me, “Where’s the redhead?”

I said, “She’s dead.” I really felt that vivacious, energetic person I had been for so many years had died.

A week ago Friday a good friend, Cindy Gillette, asked me, “Where’s the redhead?” That’s all she knew me as. I told her about my earlier response, but I was feeling more like a red head again.

After pondering it for a few days, I decided it was time. So, last Thursday, Lin (my hearty assistant) and I colored my hair. The redhead is back! I look in the mirror and love what I see! I know in my heart-of-hearts—I’m a redhead!

Am I totally healed? Yes, the wound has been healed for a few months, but I still struggle with nerve damage pain. I’ve had five injections in my ankle and leg with little relief. Next Wednesday, I see the pain management doctor and he’s going to do two trigger point injections in my knee and butt because the pain radiates up from my ankle to my butt. I also have an appointment at the end of March for another three injections in my ankle. We have no idea what the prognosis is.

No, I’m not totally healed, but this redhead can hear her dad saying, “Take the bulls by the horns. Don’t let the SBs win! Drink a lot of ice water and stay in there. Quitters never win and winners never quit.” You can see my ole cowboy dad was full of what he thought were motivational sayings.

Yes, today I agree with Dad—no matter what—I have to be true to myself, keep going and for now—that means being a redhead!


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